Going to the movies. Does going to the movies on a date always involve the man's hands all over me?

273kelvin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

Tip, if you hold his hand you know where it is.

What is your favorite word or phrase quirk?

273kelvin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

I heard a lady poet use the word "bunt" in regards to female anatomy. (A bunt is a fish trap). So now I can say "There goes a bint with a bunt" ( "bint" is an often contemptuous word of Indian origin for a woman or girl. Part of scouse slang)

Who decides what to do?

273kelvin comments on Mar 8, 2019:

So it was not your first date, just your first "real" date. He could be testing the waters? For example if you were 100% keen "dinner at my place" 85% "dinner at your place" (you can bail and call a cab if...?). 65% "romantic restaurant" 50% an activity like a movie or art show etc.

And now Aunt Mary has decided it's time to put all her eggs in one basket.

273kelvin comments on Mar 7, 2019:

"Put all of your eggs in one basket and watch that basket very carefully" Mark Twain

This seems so common sense, but so many people refuse to see it.

273kelvin comments on Mar 6, 2019:

I read an article in a chess magazine that not only made the case for it but classified luck into 3 types.

I watched "Heaven can wait" (with Beatty) again today - what a great movie!

273kelvin comments on Mar 5, 2019:

It has a long way to go to beat "A matter of life and death" (originally "Stairway to heaven" in the US). Same subject but David Niven cheats death after bailing out of his plane without a parachute. Then complicates matters by falling in love with an American servicewoman. The superb direction by Michael Powell and Emeric Pressburger and outstanding cinematography by Jack Cardiff. Mark it out as one of those films I can watch every year.

Ok.

273kelvin comments on Mar 3, 2019:

I feel for you hugs xx

I'm an old guy on a bullet train to becoming my father.

273kelvin comments on Mar 2, 2019:

A little Artie Shaw is good too

Thank you to whoever turned me on to POF.

273kelvin comments on Mar 2, 2019:

If it was me then your welcome if not then give her one for me lol

REMINDER: TOMORROW, mARCH 3RD is Trivia Nite.

273kelvin comments on Mar 2, 2019:

I have a date so .... x

Socks on or off during sex?

273kelvin comments on Mar 2, 2019:

This question should be more gender specific. I heard that women are 60% more likely to orgasm with socks on but imho 60% less likely if he has them still on.

Update: one week .

273kelvin comments on Mar 2, 2019:

I tried the FB one and its not worth it. Its too thin on members. Pof can be good but 15 msgs is not enough. Also it can be a question of timing. The "online now" is a big draw. If your Johnny on the spot then your much more likely to get a response. So stay on it as long as you can and vary your times. You have to keep checking your inbox as they time you out every 20 mins or so. Basic rule of thumb: 100 msgs = 10 replies = 1 date

Anyone else put "must be 420 friendly " in their dating profile?

273kelvin comments on Mar 2, 2019:

I have noticed that not many people do. Fish has a question "Do you use drugs?" to which you can answer "No, Socially or Often". When I put that in as a filter, I only get 12 or so in my area. Yet if you chat most will admit to using pot. There must still be a stigma around this subject. Either that or the blanket term "drugs" is too all encompassing

Leonard Cohen - Famous Blue Raincoat [youtu.be]

273kelvin comments on Mar 1, 2019:

"Going clear" is a Scientology term.

best sequel ever imo, empire strikes back was better.

273kelvin comments on Mar 1, 2019:

Its hard for a sequel to surpass the original. My two are "Short circuit 2" and "Rambo". The 1st because they really went for the funny more than the original and the 2nd because of Jack Cardiffs superb cinematography

30th anniversary pretty in pink try a little tenderness [youtu.

273kelvin comments on Mar 1, 2019:

If we were closer then I would xx

If Betty White were to join the spice girls- would she be old spice?

273kelvin comments on Mar 1, 2019:

They are all a bit old now. Scary is now "contains mild peril spice"

I logged into Tinder this morning, no issue.

273kelvin comments on Feb 28, 2019:

I had POF catfish my account in me. I couldn't change it back so I opened a new one. Just needed a new email account

And I thought we were friends!

273kelvin comments on Feb 28, 2019:

Never forget when my gf desperate for a pee sat on my lap when I was having a crap. Now THATS intimate.

Got stood up again for the second time in four months, each time a different woman from a site that ...

273kelvin comments on Feb 28, 2019:

It is the industrial standard to confirm. Given that you have been stood up before (admittedly by someone else) then I would think you would want to make sure and dot i s cross t s before the next one. She could have confirmed before assuming a "no show" and would have done so if she was keen.

I'm staging a protest on The Senate Chat Room tomorrow at 6:30 pm EST in favor of Free Speech and ...

273kelvin comments on Feb 26, 2019:

I will try and be there. If only to endeavour to inject a little sanity into the occasion.

I posted about a guy I met for coffee a week ago tonight who wasn’t feeling it after meeting.

273kelvin comments on Feb 26, 2019:

Oh come on! Maybe the guy was just trying to be nice? Ever thought of that? I am still friends with one lady I met online without chemistry and if I continue to be the gent that I am there maybe more of them.

Why do so many men include picture of themselves with small children on their dating profiles?

273kelvin comments on Feb 26, 2019:

Women do the same. I have seen loads of pics with grandchildren in them. When a woman does it I suppose they are saying "My family is a big part of my life". When a guy does it he is saying the same plus "See I am a nice genuine guy". We now live in a terrible age where this kind of thing is suspect.

I'm not a big proponent of marriage.

273kelvin comments on Feb 26, 2019:

Two gamblers at a poker table and one says "Im leaving. This game is rigged". The other says "I know its crooked but its the only game in town". They say that love makes fools of us all. In some cases it turns us into congenital idiots. Even the most severely mentally disabled child will learn not to put their hand in the fire twice. Yet time and time again women and men will return to the scene of the crime, only for the same outcome to occur but worse. To blame the victim is easy. "Just get out" you say. In many cases thats like telling a junkie to "just say no". You can certainly blame the abuser but I have known people go from one abuser to another and when they end up with a good person, drive that person to lose their temper and strike out. There must be something about them that craves that kind of behaviour, why else would these things happen repeatedly? I am reminded of a case a long while back before the law and attitudes had changed. Jane Doe lived a few doors down and every month he would kick off. Shouts and abuse, things being thrown around. It always ended up with her being hit and calling the cops. One night a sergeant of long standing turned to her and said "Jane there isnt a law in the land that I can use to stop you from being a stupid cunt".

Kings Of Leon: Sex On Fire [youtu.be]

273kelvin comments on Feb 25, 2019:

"Hello this is 911 please state the nature of your emergency" "Can you call the fire dept. please? I think that my sex is on fire"

Bobby Gentry - Ode to Billy Joe [youtu.be]

273kelvin comments on Feb 24, 2019:

https://youtu.be/GBKOkh6iuwo

Doing the usual Sunday Chat a bit early today - for those wanting to learn the Chat room interface.

273kelvin comments on Feb 24, 2019:

Ive not come across this before but it does seem an odd time to host it as a large % of active chatroom people will be playing trivia in singles. We would not any whiff biase or gerrymandering to cloud meeting, would we?

No dead cats. No death threats.

273kelvin comments on Feb 24, 2019:

101 things to do with a dead cat https://www.google.com/search?q=101+things+to+do+with+a+dead+cat=isch=univ&sa=X=2ahUKEwibkqeIjdXgAhWEXRUIHcKdCH0QsAR6BAgAEAE=1600=708#imgrc=FpGhaFY-Nq7Wa

Control yourself, ladies.

273kelvin comments on Feb 24, 2019:

A job interview for couples and they ask who makes all the decisions in the relationship. The husband pipes up "I make all the important ones and she makes all the little ones." "How so?" "Well I decide if we should build the wall, legalise pot in our state and whether the UK should leave the EU and she makes all the small stuff like what we eat, where we live and what schools the kids should go to"

What kind of "hidden agenda" do people have when they're searching for somebody to date?

273kelvin comments on Feb 24, 2019:

Mine is the same but opposite. As a smoker I will not date a non. The disapproval, constant mouthwash and exile to my car every hour or so, is somewhere I have been before and have no desire to go again. However this is part of my profile, as it should be on yours. The question was "What do you not put down?" Must not look too old is unspoken with me. Yes I know at 61 its a big ask but you can be old and not look it, Its often a question of how you dress. Also "no plebs" text spk, into footie, and such tend to get swiped left. I want a lady I can converse with.

John Hiatt ft. Ry Cooder on slide - Lipstick Sunset [youtu.be]

273kelvin comments on Feb 23, 2019:

I love this. Is it the one with Nick Lowe on bass

Perfect day. Perfect man. Life is good.

273kelvin comments on Feb 23, 2019:

Lovely

Day 2 of plenty of fake fish.

273kelvin comments on Feb 23, 2019:

They show you a small pic of who wants to meet you.. Then if you look on "Meet me" or "Whos viewed" and go though all the selections then you can get to see them and msg. Its what I do

This @$%ing guy: It’s impossible to love someone and control them at the same time.

273kelvin comments on Feb 23, 2019:

Sub/dom can by the very most loving relationship.

can we have live chat times shown as GMT ?

273kelvin comments on Feb 23, 2019:

A classic example of right over best. magicwatch is right to ask for this as GMT is the international agreed meridian used in maritime and airline traffic. However as by far the vast majority of our members are stateside, I can acquiesce that EST is the most convenient. I may tease Sassygirl a little about it when hosting trivia night but it does make sense. For myself I think we are all reasonably intelligent on here and have no problem deducting 5 hours

For Nina.

273kelvin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

I got to see about 10 years back. A real diva in the best sense of the word. Most artists worthy of their name will want the audience to like/love them. With her it was the audience that was looking for approval.

Still one of my favorite Super Bowl commercials. Does anyone recognize the song playing?

273kelvin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Local band. Echo and the bunnymen

Favorite Dylan cover by my favorite guitarist [youtu.be]

273kelvin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Interesting that you rate this higher than "Watchtower". I like it but its very similar to the treatment he gave "Wild thing"

Oh, I needed to hear this today! "Beautiful" by Carole King: [youtube.

273kelvin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Hitting the spot for me right now thank you x

Anybody else watching Netflix Umbrella Academy?

273kelvin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Its been my earworm for days now since I watched this.

Okay today has been a really strange day.

273kelvin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

https://youtu.be/yhuMLpdnOjY

Good name for it, lol.

273kelvin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

I hate people playing with my name. You know its Kelvin and thats that but the other night I went and got a bottle of red. I triumphantly returned with it and friend announced "Kelvino!"

[understandingcompassion.com] Peope who cry during movies are the strongest people of all?

273kelvin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Rocky always gets me. I walked into a dockside bar. At the end of the counter was a huge giant of a guy. (By all accounts this man was someone you did not mess with. I heard it can take 6 cops to bring him down when he kicks off). On the TV was "the Champ" the last scene was playing and tears were just rolling down that mans face. Everyone gave him a very respectful distance.

GOP lawmaker claims women are inferior: ‘a lesser cut of meat’ | Michael Stone

273kelvin comments on Feb 20, 2019:

This guy proves himself wrong by simply saying that crap. With a single stoke he has alienated half the voters. His only saving grace is that (from what I gleen) the US electorate is thicker than two short planks and more dense than a black hole. (You elected a double bankrupt as president ffs). As for "Just avoiding deadbeats" nice try. I can only assume that Jerry Hall must have found Rupert Murdoch to have a gsoh

Is dating again after marriage like dating your mom or dad?

273kelvin comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Sounds all very freudian to me. Ask yourself this "How much is that person in the mirror a stranger?" By this I mean do you feel your age or are you still that younger self inside? Now you can date younger guys, there loads of them wanting to hook up with older women for experience. Dont knock it till.... We have a wealth of sex under our belts and its a shame not to pass it on. If you do go this route it can be a lot of fun, they have great bods and lovely skin but after a while you miss having someone who knows the tunes. From this and other posts you have put up I guess youre a little ambivalent about dating per se. Thats ok, it can take time to get back into it. What I would recommend is maybe loosen up a little. Take precautions and dont settle of course but try and remember what it was like all those years ago before you met your ex and dont overthink or read too much into things. Have some fun ffs, life is too short not to.

Upcoming dates.

273kelvin comments on Feb 20, 2019:

The 1st date faux pas is not unforgivable. To my mind its up to the lady to choose the general location. Obviously Maxines in Paris is a bit ott but neutral is understandable. Given what he does for a living though he may just have wanted you to see his flat and all the tasteful objet d`art therein. He does not sound fake and anything better than his pic is a bonus so good luck.

How important is honesty to you?

273kelvin comments on Feb 20, 2019:

It s as important to me as my private jets, string of race horses, chain of hotels and collection of sports cars. Dont you agree ladies? ;-)

I think i am at the point where i just want to find a dance partner.

273kelvin comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Just show up at the dance school. Women will outnumber men anyway.

Whelp, guess that rules all of us out...

273kelvin comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Why waste a perfectly good tongue and breath control guy?

Question: Have you dated someone who was outside your comfort zone in terms of things like age, ...

273kelvin comments on Feb 19, 2019:

It depends on what you mean by comfort zone. I have dated outside my race, age and income but I am more fascinated by differences than discomforted.

This wont get me to visit anytime soon, but who knew? [statesymbolsusa.org]

273kelvin comments on Feb 19, 2019:

https://youtu.be/EX9p50MIexs

Our Weird World I've been visiting the local Unitarian Universalist fellowship on occasion, and ...

273kelvin comments on Feb 19, 2019:

If it was me I would have rode my bike up to him, stopped and just revved it up every time he spoke.

“Revolution is not something fixed in ideology, nor is it something fashioned to a particular ...

273kelvin comments on Feb 19, 2019:

"Revolution is the opium of the intellectuals"

Hey everyone! I'm a new member here, and I'm looking for some guidance from someone who has been ...

273kelvin comments on Feb 19, 2019:

Go for it. You should not live in fear of condemnation. Who knows there may be a soul mate in the audience that you would never have met if you had not.... However as "host" you should not be expressing your opinions at all

For some reason when I browse through members here, I often find myself drawn to men from the UK.

273kelvin comments on Feb 18, 2019:

I am not complaining x

How about "Hit Me with Your Best Shot?"

273kelvin comments on Feb 18, 2019:

The only unspoken forbidden subject....time. https://youtu.be/g3fzPUG9R_Y

This is currently relevant to the UK but could affect any western countries.

273kelvin comments on Feb 18, 2019:

Lets first look at the facts. She is a UK subject, she has the absolute right to return. She joined an organisation which is at war with the UK. ISIS has killed british people. Now lets look at some mitigating factors. She is/was very young. She has already lost 2 babies. However would she be wanting to comeback if she had somewhere else to go? All things considered she should of course be allowed back but must take responsibility for her actions (to the degree that the law thinks a minor should). She is potentially guilty of treason and should be charged with such, unless she fully co-operates with the intelligence services.

President's day?

273kelvin comments on Feb 18, 2019:

A suggestion http://www.themetimeradio.com/episode-68-presidents/

Good morning all.

273kelvin comments on Feb 18, 2019:

They were something else on screen. Shame you didnt get to see it all even if it was not their best work. Others they did together must see are; "Whos afraid of Virginia Woolf" and "The taming of the shrew"

Whew,.

273kelvin comments on Feb 17, 2019:

Heres a tip when buying white goods. They always try and get you to buy a warranty. So string them along and ask if theres a discount if you do? Most shops will knock something off the purchase price for getting their unnecessary overpriced care package. Soon as you get home with the goods, cancel the warranty. The discount will still stand.

The Rolling Stones: Stray Cat Blues [youtu.be]

273kelvin comments on Feb 16, 2019:

Definitely a child of its time. Listen to the lyrics and see if they would not be charged with statutory rape nowadays.

How much does your ego get in the way of you meeting others? Asking for a friend

273kelvin comments on Feb 16, 2019:

I am prejudiced I admit it. I have no problem with any ethnicity or sexual orientation but I don`t find stupid sexy. Dont get me wrong, some of my best friends are thick as pig shit but I would not let my daughter marry one.

I'm a horrible flirt! There is this cashier I find funny and attractive.

273kelvin comments on Feb 16, 2019:

This is one of the true purposes of the valentine card. You could ask all those questions and drop it at her checkout. Here is a little ditty I wrote for a friend who had the same problem. It is sung acapella. The last syllables of "bargain" are the ding-dong of the isle free bell. Im in love with the lady who works In.... "Home and Bar-gain....." I wish I could walk up to her and say "Oh I beg your par-don..... But while your sitting at your checkout chair.... Im dreaming of your underwear" Im in love, Im in love, Im in love With the lady who works.... In "Home and Bar-gain"

As I previously stated, I've written off Mr.

273kelvin comments on Feb 16, 2019:

Alone In freindzone The tiny peck that says goodnight As the door closes off your light A shoulder that you cry on The nice guy you rely on But the shoulder that I cry for is so cold No pitch required, already sold Packaged and all yours to own On a dusty shelf in freindzone Just an easy touch Never asking much I`m just a place to be But do ever think of me Sitting here until dawns light On the whisper of a maybe or a might Hanging on to the off-off chances Outsider bet of your romances Waiting by the phone Stuck in freindzone Do you ever even see The love that hides so deep in me Do you ever hear The cry that is so quiet yet so near The yearning to be yours both day and night Says my chaste forehead kiss goodnight The passion that`s condensed to quips As you wander off to other lips And when your lips a cracked and broken Sucker punched by words he`s spoken I am ready for your call The safety net to break the fall Answering the phone In freindzone Do I serve your purpose As I wait and stand At your service Your command A toy soldier left to waste Not discarded just incased Answering the call Ready for the fall Alone In freindzone

A artist thankfully removing her stuff from here was telling me that Michelle Obama was a man and ...

273kelvin comments on Feb 16, 2019:

If she is a man then I gonna be gay (just for her/him).

Hard of Hearing?

273kelvin comments on Feb 13, 2019:

https://youtu.be/COLtu6MzY6U

The dog fell asleep waiting for the honey to call and say goodnight.

273kelvin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

https://youtu.be/Vnzpg5GgQCo

Every time I get on plenty of catfish, I immediately get messages from random women looking to ...

273kelvin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

I have had a few that I have wound up. They generally want you to go on another outlet like email. You will get some glamour pics. The last one lived in Turkey. She (??) was ready to come to me but needed £400 for the ticket but said she could not pay it all. I asked her (??) if she could do £250 and got the predictable response of "Yes yes". So I said "Great here is an online link to tickets for £230".

Every time I get on plenty of catfish, I immediately get messages from random women looking to ...

273kelvin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

Not too many on the UK site. Thats.maybe one of the benefits of brexit. Looks like the UK is going down in the " I wanna live there" stakes.

(L)The power of pink

273kelvin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

I would love to get closer to the real pink

Hey friends, having a rough day at the moment.

273kelvin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

Okay but I would have to see the exchange

Can You Cuddle Naked Without Having Sex?

273kelvin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

Yes I can. My last partner and I used sleep naked. We were together for 15 years and not every night was a sex night (sometimes we had afternoons instead lol). Add to that we still slept together for six months before I moved out. It was not a big deal to just cuddle. She gets drunk with me now and again and we just cuddle. 15 years of great sex has left us just very good friends.

Being told how sexy you are in the first few messages. What do people think about this?

273kelvin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

I never say sexy. There are some adjectives I use where appropriate "lovely, stunning, gorgeous or wonderful". I dont regard these as OTT and there is nothing wrong in saying that you look good

1 I send emails to my lover, letting him know how he makes me feel when we meet.

273kelvin comments on Feb 10, 2019:

Happy Valentine

It’s not that I hate growing old, we all know the alternative.

273kelvin comments on Feb 10, 2019:

Yeah but think back, how naive were you then? how many times did you not go for it when you should have and how many times did you go for it when it when you know now it was a big mistake. Okay hindsight is everyone being a poker champion but I bet you are a far better sexual being now then when you think that you looked so good. The things that you have learnt along lifes travels has made you into a fine wine. Questions; If you could go back in time and meet yourself. What would you tell them? Would you have a threesome with your younger self and if so who would be the lover that would be favoured?

REMINDER: Tonight, February 10th is TRIVIA NITE.

273kelvin comments on Feb 10, 2019:

I may not make it tonight as Ive been invited out to an open mic. However I may join you later if a little late xx

A little Placebo to help you feel better in this terrible ...

273kelvin comments on Feb 9, 2019:

I think I saw them do this last year...or was it a tribute band?

Preying Mantis.

273kelvin comments on Feb 9, 2019:

The best fight I ever read about was by Gerald Durrell "my family and other animals". Between his mantis and his gecko. The action was intense as the fought to the death all over his bedroom.

Someone take over, I need my needles back.

273kelvin comments on Feb 9, 2019:

When Margaret Thatcher was in office. She had surgery on her hand using acupuncture. Legend has it that when this happened all over the country wax dolls writhed in agony

After a thought-process-altering experience with a man with whom I became embroiled on an online ...

273kelvin comments on Feb 9, 2019:

I think if anyone is serious then yes they introduce you to their friends at least. Dinner with the parents is another matter.

What is your favorite massage oil base?

273kelvin comments on Feb 9, 2019:

I tend to go with baby oil.

One for the American, British and European people to read.

273kelvin comments on Feb 9, 2019:

I dont do RT

I can't believe this! A woman that I have gone out with on approximately 6 or seven dates in the the...

273kelvin comments on Feb 9, 2019:

Maybe she thinks its only dating if you have sex? I tell you one thing though, if you had been on similar "outings" with someone else at the same time. Then they certainly would be dates

Hi, I have a few self published books on Amazon.

273kelvin comments on Feb 9, 2019:

One of the best short stories ever written, Somerset Maugham "Rain". Set in the pacific islands it tells of a bar girl and a missionary. The story is the reverse of yours as she finds religion and ends up being betrayed.

I was at the bar for my grandmas retirement slash birthday party.

273kelvin comments on Feb 9, 2019:

Stronger than the love of a sister for her brother Stronger than the love of a son for a mother Is love felt by one drunken man for another

Pretty faces .... That's this weeks scavenger hunt.... Just the face....

273kelvin comments on Feb 8, 2019:

Scavenger hunt plus my crush. Victoria Coren. A classic English rose face but also witty, sassy and intelligent. The only two times winner of the european poker tour and smart mouthed TV quiz mistress

Are you a conspiracy theorist?

273kelvin comments on Feb 8, 2019:

What gets me about conspiracy theories is I have never come across any organisation that efficient. Really can you think of any time a secret could be kept by more than 10 people, for ever?

Oh, the humanity!

273kelvin comments on Feb 8, 2019:

He can if you always have your bible with you.

I keep thinking this has to have a punch line. Any takers?

273kelvin comments on Feb 8, 2019:

"Did you get my letter?"

Monty Python

273kelvin comments on Feb 7, 2019:

Before Python there was beyond the fringe. You may notice a young Dudley Moore and Alan Bennett (of lady in a van fame) https://youtu.be/CXLGVDOd7yk Before that was The Goon Show (the opening voice here is Peter Sellers) https://youtu.be/ctM_Rvgjfpo

I had a female friend tell me about the stages of dating many years ago.

273kelvin comments on Feb 7, 2019:

And what stage are you?

Only 5 Weeks until St Patrick's Day! What is your town/city doing to prepare for this Irish ...

273kelvin comments on Feb 7, 2019:

Liverpool has been a city racked with sectarian divide. In consequence on st Patrick's night 60% of the drinkers will be out celebrating. Then a few months later the other 60% will be celebrating the 12th of July

I've been anti-Valentine's day for about 10 years now.

273kelvin comments on Feb 7, 2019:

In the UK we have a "just eat" app that you can order fast food and get it delivered to your or someone else's door. Perhaps you could get the same meal for you both and then eat it together but apart. Via video call of course.

News in from the UK identifying disturbing societal behaviour: [telegraph.co.uk]

273kelvin comments on Feb 7, 2019:

It was November 5th two years ago. She got very drunk and was up till 6am. I stayed sober and should have gone to bed but the noise would have kept me up anyway. In the end we argued and she started throwing things around my flat. Then she picked up one of my guitars with both hands and looked as if she was going to smash it. I managed to wrestle it off her and told her to leave. She refused and I tried to push her out of the door then she slapped me. I slapped her back. I am not proud of it but it was just a knee jerk reaction. Upshot was she called the cops. What I should have done in hindsight is disappear but I had not done anything wrong so I stayed and they took us both in seperate cars to the station.I was asked if I had been drinking to which I truthfully replied not for several hours and not a great amount at that. Had I slept that night? No so they told me I had to wait in the cell until I had rested. Sixteen hours later!! I was questioned and released with no charges for either of us. If any of you find yourself in a similar situation. Then walk around the block. Do not be there when the cops come. You can go the the station later to answer any accusations but if you are Johnny on the spot you will be sitting in a police cell all day.

The Pope admitting to the "sexual slavery" of nuns brings up serious horror regarding an egregious ...

273kelvin comments on Feb 7, 2019:

The problem is not confined to religion although it is shown at its most pronounced there. No the problem stems from when the organization (be that church, military, political cause etc.) is deemed to be more important than the individual.

Yesterday @BeeHappy shared this video in the Love & Relationships category.

273kelvin comments on Feb 7, 2019:

I think that your last point is very important. So many of us expect too much from our dates. We are looking for "the one" and that is a big ask from anyone.To be the perfect key to your lock is huge improbability. Not that romance and great partners are not out there and I dont mean settling for creeps, stalkers, weirdos or bullies but think on. When you first started dating were you looking for a life partner or just someone to go to the prom with? Of course as time went on and we look to start a family then the long haul becomes a major factor but lets face it by now we live alone, are a little more set in our ways and may be looking for something a bit more part-time. Sure I want butterflies but I also want my own space. When I am with someone I want to be 100% there and them the same. I feel I can only do this if we have time off from each other. Does that make me a bad prospective bf? We are all not getting any younger. Perhaps its time to lower our expectations a little and just enjoy the ride.

Why would someone not have a profile picture on a dating site?

273kelvin comments on Feb 6, 2019:

There can be many reasons. A poor self image, being afraid if getting stalked, working with the public like the bar trade and not wanting anyone at work seeing you, a little ashamed that you have to resort to the internet to get a date (yes there are some people who still think like this), Those are good reasons but of course there are bad ones too.

First the Devil brought us lettuce.

273kelvin comments on Feb 6, 2019:

https://youtu.be/URAqnM1PP5E

I'm pretty ignorant about squirters. Is that lubricating fluid or is that from an orgasm?

273kelvin comments on Feb 6, 2019:

Interesting question, I too have read the science but I can only talk from personal experience. Not all women do this at least not for me and some only very occasionally. It takes time and patience to bring this about. The method I use is dual, fingers massage her g-spot and tongue or fingers on her clit. A vibrator may be substituted for either but the important thing is to keep both areas stimulated at the same time. A little concurrent anal play works too if thats what she likes. The main point is thats its not foreplay, it is the the main attraction. We are not talking 10 minutes to get her in the mood but at least a good half hour of concentrated pussy work. She may cum a few times before the squirt but you keep going. As for the liquid, yes there is urine in there but not as we know it Jim. Perhaps this is the thin end of the wedge to get into water sports. All I know is it tastes great and love it.

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273kelvin comments on Feb 5, 2019:

The use of a foil is quite common. Plato and Galileo both used them in a phoney debate to promote their ideas. The difference here is the deception involved. Of course they could not have invited a real atheist, the risks would been too great. Although some of the guys from the conservative group on here might have been dumb enough to get their arses kicked by kids.