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Love & Relationships

Oct 8, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Che26m

Take one for the team?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 8, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Che26m

Which do you prefer, to meet people online or in person and why?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 8, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by DragonsOwl

What are your thoughts on open relationships?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 8, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Scorp50

Can an atheist happily co-exist with a devout christian?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 8, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by MichaelSpinler

My local atheist group was run by a group of polyamorous . while i try to be open minded, to other life styles, i found that one hard to deal with. i was approached by a pretty young lady, we talked a while had my hopes high, then she dropped the ...

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Love & Relationships

Sep 25, 2017Sep 2017

Posted by GoodMan

When and how to talk about religion on a date?

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Love & Relationships

Sep 27, 2017Sep 2017

Posted by luckytobealive

Is religion affecting your sexuality?

14 comments

Love & Relationships

Aug 12, 2017Aug 2017

Posted by Admin

POLLIs there such thing as a soul mate?

16 votes Yes
52 votes No
21 votes Maybe

52 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 6, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by pierceddogmom

Do you date outside of your race?

51 comments

Love & Relationships

Aug 12, 2017Aug 2017

Posted by Admin

Any advice on how to date or marry a believer?

29 comments

Love & Relationships

Aug 30, 2017Aug 2017

Posted by Admin

How to deal with religious family and friends?

104 comments

Love & Relationships

Sep 20, 2017Sep 2017

Posted by MartinKen

Why an entire life to forget them

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Love & Relationships

Sep 25, 2017Sep 2017

Posted by GoodMan

Dating a theist; what is unacceptable to you?

1 comment

Love & Relationships

Sep 25, 2017Sep 2017

Posted by kkocur89

Why is so difficult to find a woman to date as an atheist?

12 comments

Love & Relationships

Sep 29, 2017Sep 2017

Posted by GoodMan

Would you date someone you met online?

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Love & Relationships

Sep 29, 2017Sep 2017

Posted by Geek

How to meet an atheist in a highly religious area?

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Love & Relationships

Sep 29, 2017Sep 2017

Posted by GoodMan

What are the qualities a potential mate must have?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 1, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by MichaelSpinler

How religious does a person have to be, before it is a deal breaker to date them?

20 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 2, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by biggmannmario

POLLDating and religion

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Love & Relationships

Oct 4, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Mr-Chuckles

How do I find love when I don't know how to start a conversation?

12 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 5, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by BWatkins37921

Any gay atheists?

20 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 5, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by GoodMan

What are your biggest turnoffs from potential mates?

26 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 6, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by pierceddogmom

How far would you be willing to go for love?

10 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 7, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Nicsnort

POLLDating outside your (non)faith?

31 votes Yes
12 votes No
12 votes Unsure

26 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 7, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by vincentkero

How do you tell if someone is into you?

7 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 7, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Marblesthegreat

There's this girl who hates me. But I really want to be friends. The problem is I have a strong preference towards people who share my beliefs. (She's Jewish and a different political party)

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Love & Relationships

Oct 8, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by SamL

While there are examples of monogamy in nature, I don't believe man was meant to be.

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Love & Relationships

Oct 8, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by optimist

POLLWhat are the double standards heterosexual men experience most in dating?

15 votes paying for the date
7 votes pulling out a woman's chair
7 votes opening the door
12 votes initiating conversation
8 votes initiating sex
4 votes being the 1st to say 'I love you'

9 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 8, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by KatieHowie

POLLFirst date, who pays?

23 votes The person who asked
0 votes The person who choose the place
18 votes Have separate checks
18 votes Arrangements made ahead of time (example- one pays for dinner, one pays for movie)

26 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 8, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by optimist

POLLWhat are the double standards heterosexual women experience during dating the most?

0 votes wait for sex
1 vote hours getting ready
2 votes don't initiate
1 vote initiate

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Love & Relationships

Oct 9, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by smilnjan

Let's have some fun! (background - I used to be over 200lbs about 2 years ago) This guy I went on a date with tried to get me to have sex on the first date with so many stupid reasons and cajoling. Things like "Oh, you'll love it when I tie you ...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 9, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by VictoriaNotes

Having seperate bedrooms: Would you be open to this?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 9, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Rory_C-137

What is your view on polyamory?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 10, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by SamL

How did you arrive at your views on sex? How did you determine what is right, acceptable and not perverted?

4 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 11, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by mistymoon77

Non traditional vs traditional weddings

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Love & Relationships

Oct 12, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by MarcusF

I just recently gave up on on-line dating. Now I have stumbled upon this site via Facebook. Of course this site is more than just dating which is very great. Has anyone else become frustrated with on-line dating to point of wanting to chuck it all ...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 12, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by AccursedHalo

Say you find someone who seems amazing in your eyes, but they turn out to be religious; Do you move on or try to work it out? If you stay and work it out, how do you go about it? If you move on, why?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 13, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by findfreethinks

Do any of you wish that these segments of our understanding were larger in society so that we could have more of a support system in life in general as many in the Religious world experience in their gatherings?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 14, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by goatgirl

Is it normal or healthy to prefer to spend the majority of my time alone?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 14, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by GordonWolters

How long has your longest relationship lasted?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 14, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by JavierCdotNET

How many agnostics, atheists are out there who actually want to date another agnostic/atheist?

54 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 14, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Singleaussie

Whats your assessment of online dating? is it for the damaged, desperate or is it 'normal' these days?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 15, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by MichaelSpinler

If you had to change your sexuality

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Love & Relationships

Oct 15, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by SamL

Differing cultural attitudes towards sex can be eye opening. Dutch teens were asked what they thought of one of their male peers who had condoms in his wallet. They responded that he was smart because he was prepared to practice safe sex. When ...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 15, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by snytiger6

Outside of this site, how do you find other atheists/agnostics to socialize or date?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 16, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by aioaae

Lots of confusion in this world ! We know why. I have and want to continue to live in an Earth Paradise and am looking for a woman who, ideally, have experienced what autonomy and almost self suficiency mean. Who want to participate, aside from ...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 17, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Jennifer1966

Anyone got any tips on how to meet other non-believers in the Bible Belt?

7 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 17, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by HeathenFarmer

How comfortable are you with intimacy with a partner in a relationship?

17 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 17, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by ProudHeathen

What are you most looking for in a relationship? Just your 1 Thing

186 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 17, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by JMFT9517

Hot button question! Do you agree or disagree with sex outside marriage?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 17, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Tre98th

Has anyone been able to maintain or be currently maintaining an intimate relationship with a religious person as an atheist yourself? If so did or does religion ever cause issues in that relationship?

9 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 18, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by AMGT

Bumping Uglies

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Love & Relationships

Oct 18, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by VictoriaNotes

Erectile Dysfunction: A Question for Women and Gay Men

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Love & Relationships

Oct 18, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by NickKenneth

I've been into Dawkins and Hitchens since 2006 when I read the God Delusion and God is not great. I also read the back catalogue of Dawkins. I enjoy discussions and truth. My wife is a theist and has since declared her love for a minister...this ...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 18, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Mantra

What's your favorite quote about love?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 18, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by TaliaElizabeth92

Boyfriend is agnostic, I'm an atheist. How to cope with disagreements?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 18, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by violinist60

Friends on the "other side"...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 18, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by RJAU

At what point in an ‘opposites attract’ relationship, do things become problematic?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 18, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by KMEverything

Reconciling "belief" systems with people on the "agnostic-atheist" spectrum. I have found that many of my friends who identify as agnostic or atheist, have an ongoing conflict regarding their "belief" system. Either/or seem to debate each other to ...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 19, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by ProudHeathen

Being the Cheater

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Love & Relationships

Oct 19, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by wrknbuzz

Monogamy vs. Ethical Non-Monogamy. Ready set....discuss

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Love & Relationships

Oct 19, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by leemsami

Why is so hard to date being an atheist?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 19, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by rlyeh_fhtagn

How have you dealt with losing someone you view as a "soul mate" (for lack of a better term)?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 19, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by countrygeek79

Have you ever had a successful relationship with a theist?

1 comment

Love & Relationships

Oct 19, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by lyondeng

POLLMarriage equality

29 votes Yes
0 votes No
1 vote Not informed enough on the issue need more time to research

16 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 19, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by paul1967

Avoiding the Friend Zone

16 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 19, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by ProudHeathen

Are you attracted to the bad boys or naughty girls?

22 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 20, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Magnolia

Relationship Loss

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Love & Relationships

Oct 20, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Johnvincent123

“We accept the LOVE we think we deserve"

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Love & Relationships

Oct 20, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Mantra

Is True Love Attainable? I would like to share this story of Plato learning about love and marriage. I first heard about it years ago and happened to see it again today. One day, Plato asked his teacher, “What is love? How can I find it?” The...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 20, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by paul1967

POLLIs lusting really a bad thing? Can lust ever be enough to maintain a relationship?

7 votes Lust is in the end empty. (Select all that apply)
4 votes Lust is really what love is (Select all that apply)
20 votes Lust can turn into love (Select all that apply)
8 votes Lust is never enough (Select all that apply)
1 vote All we need is Lust (Select all that apply)

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Love & Relationships

Oct 20, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by paul1967

How would you feel if you found out that the person you have feeling for was transgender?

36 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 21, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Squirrellglider

POLLGenital piercing?

1 vote Like them.
5 votes Hate them.
2 votes Wouldn't make any difference.

5 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 21, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Tre98th

Dating Thiest

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Love & Relationships

Oct 21, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by MichaelSpinler

Is distance an issue when finding a mate?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 21, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Redlegdex

Hmmm.... I never thought I’d ever agree with a dude like this but shit.... he’s right on the money. In my 36 years of life, 10 relationships and 3 summer flings, I’ve only truly approached 1 girl, and that was in high school. Seems the ...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 21, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by SarcomaSlayer85

Would you date a person with a terminal illness?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 22, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Squirrellglider

When do you find sex the most enjoyable?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 23, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by ZenBear

It happened again... Housewarming/Halloween Party at a friend’s new place, singing karaoke and drinking, having a great time. I meet a new girl, friend of a friend, we hit it off right away. We’re getting a little hot and heavy, and someone asks...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 24, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Tre72

Love and beliefs

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Love & Relationships

Oct 25, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Introverted

Do atheists make better lovers? What's your experience? I'm talking about committed relationships, not just sex. Does believing this life is all we have encourage people to invest more in it?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 25, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by Squirrellglider

When you became an atheist or agnostic did you change your attitude to sex?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 25, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by AndreaJoy

Can a theist and an atheist actually have a relationship?

10 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 26, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by B99Nerd

Comforting dying religious family members?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 29, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by MichaelSpinler

do atheist yell oh darwin during sex?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 29, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by ZoeZzonbie

(Every black man needs a strong god fearing black woman). Am I the only one who finds God fearing unattractive and scary? And why she got to be black? Where did this line come from?

8 comments

Love & Relationships

Oct 29, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by AMGT

What would you LEAST be able to forgive in your spouse/partner?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 30, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by PriceMichael

About Me and What I Think: 1st Question is most Men really Straight and Hetero? When I see myself Straight & Hetero (I run into some deeper issues) I see men wanting to show the same interest women have ... They are like Straight and Hetero with an...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 30, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by AMGT

What do you find sexy?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 31, 2017Oct 2017

Posted by JMFT9517

What was the first date you've ever been on?

12 comments

Love & Relationships

Nov 1, 2017Nov 2017

Posted by RoadGoddess

How has atheism improved your relationships?

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Love & Relationships

Nov 3, 2017Nov 2017

Posted by silvereyes

POLLWould you involve yourself in a romantic relationship with a theist?

22 votes Yes, I would get involved with a theist.
30 votes No, I would never be involved with a theist.
42 votes It isn't preferable, but it's not a deal breaker.

36 comments

Love & Relationships

Nov 3, 2017Nov 2017

Posted by AnthonySpencer

If you can't prove it..move it! If you can't show it..you can't know it! Prove god outside your brain? :)

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Love & Relationships

Nov 4, 2017Nov 2017

Posted by Pagan777

Looking for some atheist camaraderie in central Iowa.

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Love & Relationships

Nov 5, 2017Nov 2017

Posted by KingB

Dating/hookup whats the differance?

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Love & Relationships

Nov 5, 2017Nov 2017

Posted by Marleybone

What's more important to you, brains or body?

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Love & Relationships

Nov 6, 2017Nov 2017

Posted by KenRock

Women asking a man for a date.

14 comments

Love & Relationships

Nov 6, 2017Nov 2017

Posted by Diarmaede

Do more atheists and agnostics get involved in non-traditional relationships?

9 comments

Love & Relationships

Nov 7, 2017Nov 2017

Posted by evergreen

I don't believe in the concept of "soulmates", as most of us will meet more than one very compatible human, as we move along our path. And if we lose a mate, no matter how incredibly difficult the aftermath, most go on to find another. Yet, I ...

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