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Just wanted to know if anyone else out there is having difficulty meeting like minded people?
Freedompath comments on Jan 22, 2018:
I want to relay an experience a friend has. Her husband died 3 years back and she was determine to find another partner and I have never met anyone more determined. It seemed more like a business to me. She had certain criteria ie, no trump supporter #1 and other specific things. She went through 100s, of short meetings and she ended up in a couple of good relationship that didn't last (and got hurt a little bit). But, she kept up her search and the last time I checked in, she was having so much fun dating, that she wasn't sure she wanted to get married, again!! Now, I may not want to work that hard, but it may take that much work! She is a wonderful friend and I am sure that every body is having as much fun with her as I have! If you make it a fun thing, it looks like you win, no matter how it turns out! Good luck...
It seems very apparent to me Trumpublicans have engineered the government shutdown to energize their...
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
IT may be WORSE than that?!
This my first post.
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
Welcome!
Why are we not farming politicians who have the integrity to say, no, I'm not a believer in ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
Wow, would I LIKE to see that happen! At this very time, Pruitt is investigating every single member of his EPA departments to see if they have made negative remarks about trump! This is simply beyond a rigged system to me! It is difficult to hold out hope, with this much 'weight' stacked against us! Just when I see a little hope, I am blinded by reality!!
We keep having the exact same questions asked over and over,
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
Yes, I too noticed that, but we must not forget that new members may have the same questions? I have no idea how to handle that? If I see a duplicate on ideas, I just pass on by, and then on the other hand it looks like I repeat a few ideas...but I address them in a different way! Now, I have never been someone, that repeated anything twice (can be a bit of a problem in perfecting something). I guess, it it became too boring for people, they would just drop off...I'm not there yet!
Does it help us to have as much reasoning as a religious church?
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
I can walk away now and not explain my beliefs, but when I was struggling to find my place in society, I couldn't! I wanted to contribute something... but somewhere back in my developmental process, I veered off the path, from where ALL the other people around me, were! If I spoke my true beliefs, I was demeaned, ostracized and even shamed! It has been, that only after I claimed my own 'nature'...good, bad and indifferent...that now, I can say, if your religion is good enought for you, then is fine with me! That took a lot of suffering on my part! As, I just wanted a place at the 'table!' But I found out...that I REFUSED to pay the price! So, here I am, with NO TABLE, and holding 'life' in my hands! So, I won...
How do you deal with staunch, convinced theists that will not even listen to logic and reason.
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
I have similar dynamics in my family, people that I wished to be a part of their life! But, some of them are so conditioned to reject new information, they refuse to even share my company! When you 'waste' a great number of years, trying to prove (by example) that you are not some evil entity, so they will 'share' with you...you throw in the towel and teach/share with yourself...what you believe that it takes to be a decent human being! Free at last! Free at last! Is my assessment! You might read, 'The Authoritarians' by Bob Altemeyer...(and maybe you already know of this work) sometimes we must face our limitations, even in the such of 'sharing' and love!
Tomorrow spring semester starts again.
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
...struggle through the learning curve...remember, there really is such a thing! I once, felt that I was going to throw-up, in every math class! And, back then I did not understand it was anxiety! The anxiety, block my retention, so then I felt like a 'dummy'...which compounded the problem with learning math! Do relaxation before hard classes, it does help! Best of luck
Visited a Universal Unitarian church.
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
So glad to hear that! I still have a place in my heart for UU. Just out of reach for me at the moment!
After years of growing up with religion, being a follower and even running away from a pseudo ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
I believe that it is energy, or vibration! That is if 'everything' goes some WHERE and does something? Doesn't energy create weather? Lightening? Isn't it an energy field that keeps our heart pumping? Something, sure does!!
Is character assassination calling out a person for using sexual innuendos on another person?
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
My comment was meant with dating, not the work place or stranger to stranger meetings!
Is character assassination calling out a person for using sexual innuendos on another person?
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
The scenario that you described would not fall under 'sexual harassment,' to me. Maybe poor timing or bad taste, but that is not a power play, not if is expressed in a clear cut, question! AND, the answer was respected! Our society has progressed passed the point of 'catching people of guard' in order to have sex...at least the last time I checked!
You ever think you have a great question or answer only to try to figure out what friends or ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
Take heart fellow traveler...you may have stepped into a new 'to you' domain! Learning is work, allow yourself to express from YOUR 'nature' ...then use what 'speaks' to you and let the other pass on by! I have found learning to come in bits and pieces! Although, there was a time that I wanted, 'it all' and right then, if possible! IT ISN'T POSSIBLE!
Hopefully soon, there'll be a proper shift wherein intelligence, education, science and freethought ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
I wonder if that can ever happen? This is an imperfect world. Nothing is perfect and never will be and yet it works! We may face balance and imbalance forever...even 'weather' can't be nailed down! We are not weather, but we are a part of nature! And I reason, that a poll of the people on this forum, will show them evolved to different levels! So how will it go...? Maybe, when (perfect) brain transplants become the norm...we will have arrived?
Why don't we have a agnostic church ?
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
The RELIGIOUS Christians, would burn it down!!! Maybe, later on or continue to be 'low-key' and pass and repass...everything does not need to be visible, to have even great value...I have never seen my DNA!
What political party do you consider yourself to be?
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
I can't say that I lean left, anymore. I can say... with all that is in me and all that I stand for...it is not the GOP...Republican! Since we only have 2 choices, I stand with the left...Democrat! But, it bothers me that their 'stand' is 'wobbly!' I realize, that the 'left' has never been...'screaming,' 'over-talking,' fools, but sometimes, they need to 'speak-up' for what is humane and 'right!' and FAIR!
It has been weighing on me heavily, this last debate I was a part of here, in regards to the thread ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
I would like to say, that I was not part of the post that you referred to, but you sounded a little hard on yourself! Learning curves are hard...no matter what they cover. I would not 'judge' you so harshly...mainly because, I once stood in your footsteps! Without, experience, I know of few people who made a lot of progress in their spiritual/emotional/intellectual growth! This is not something that we get from textbooks! Sure, once-up-on-a-time, harsh words stung me deeply! But, as I grew, I understood the reasons behind them, and I try to allow another person to 'come from his real' position. That is where we all need to correct ourself...from! And, I don't think that I would 'write it in stone'...that you 'would never do it again.' You may not need to be perfect, on the forum! I sure hope that I don't?!? My best to you.
I'm an idiot about american politics. Why does the government need to shut down? WTF?
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
Because, we are a Country who's government is held together by the 'purse strings' of the wealthy! After the Tax Cut...Ryan, got $400.000, from the Koch Bros. Even a large group of average citizens want have that kind of clout! I write a letter almost every week to Senator Perdue, because he is only working for some kind of appointment from Trump. He is all about 'show'...even out and out lies! He is RELIGIOUS, too! I have to believe, that even a small action for justice, has an effect somehow!
Pantheism.
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
I seem to fit this discription. Over the years, I felt as if I had a link with all things. Merging but seperate.
I just hit level 7.4. Oh happy day!!!
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
Points build up when we can speak freely...from our unhampered nature! Congrats!
Song for Donald - Parody of Song of Roland - YouTube
Freedompath comments on Jan 21, 2018:
What do you think about this clip?
ThIs sIgn looks vaguely famIlIar
Freedompath comments on Jan 20, 2018:
OMG...that sight kinda attacks the senses!! We must stay vigilant...
Parenting
Freedompath comments on Jan 20, 2018:
If I could do my parenting over...I doubt that I would say that to any of my children. I would ask, what kind of work would you choose, when you are grown up? And, I would be on the look out for their natural talents! And once that was revealed, I would help them understand what it takes to prepare themselves for that occupation. 'Being anything,' has an unending connotation to it. No one has that many talents that could be developed! And, if you were conditioned by that idea, you might never nail down your life's work! Your choices would be endless! It might only be a psychic thing, but wouldn't that be a hendrence?
Parents! How do you deal with grandparents who try to influence your children with religion?
Freedompath comments on Jan 20, 2018:
Most things children experience is brought out into the open. If you have allowed them to freely express themselves, they will reveal things that grandparents and even strangers say or do to them. At least most of the time. That is when to confidently explain your position and even find out what the child thinks? We never want a child to feel powerless, even if we want to stir them in another direction. Grandparents ...even the ignorant and the religious ones, love their grandchildren. And it is work, staying vigilant under these circumstances, but it is less stressful than being in a 'battle,' to correct the grandparents, if you keep any kind of relationship with them. However, if there is physical or verbal abuse, that requires another set of rules (not covered here). Children do seem to (on the whole), know what is good and what is not good. And, it has been my experience, if you have provided children a loving and secure place to grow in...even the errored ways of a grandparent, does little damadge. Children can be taught to trust their feelings about what is 'bad' or what is untrue and avoid them or to tell someone. Children are resilient, but less stress does allow them to grow (brain and nervous system) without so much anxiety (about relationships)! And, my last thought would be to try and schedule fun things when visiting with grandparents, not much harm can attach itself to any of us, when we are having fun!
Have you ever been told "you got lucky" when talking about your children?
Freedompath comments on Jan 20, 2018:
It seems like the 'others'...believe certain traits come into the world in a 'completed' form. It does seems that some children are more malleable than others, but still...they would behave according to what they were exposured to. But, there are still traits and behaviors of 'unknown origins', sometimes. I guess, that would fall under 'luck.'
I just wanted to say hello from a tiny blue dot in a stupid, red state.
Freedompath comments on Jan 20, 2018:
You are not alone! Everywhere, there are people among a lot of 'red' people who seem to have gone off the rails! That see nothing wrong with splitting apart families, which will cause hardship and pain...creating shame on the backs of childen, who can't figure out why their family life is falling apart! And, we feel their pain and feel mostly helpless to stop the carnage...But, we may be few in some places, but we know the difference between justice and injustice and we will not stay silent...keep that in your heart!
Why don’t facts change people’s minds? | Varsity
Freedompath comments on Jan 20, 2018:
Prior brain development, for one! And reality is hard to take for some people. They can develop a fantasy way of looking at the world. The research shows that this personality will go against what would be in 'their best interest!' If I see someone in the act of hurting another person, with words or actions...I am going to speak up! Otherwise, I will 'respectfully pass and re-pass!'
I suppose this can fall under the Politics category, though I think we might need to add 'Society' ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 20, 2018:
And I would like to add...you need some trustworthy people to share your concerns, they will dissipate sooner than later. And, I try and remember that I may not be the person, that can bring 'reason' to this/or that person. No need for guilt, as it appears that you will do what you can...no one can be expected to do more!
I suppose this can fall under the Politics category, though I think we might need to add 'Society' ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 20, 2018:
First off, you cannot do any good for yourself, much less someone else...if you are injured. Focus on staying safe. It is not possible, to bring sanity to insane remarks... in an off the cuff discussion. (Even I need to focus!) That person must 'save face' in a group and may not drop his guard even in one on one! This other person will just 'up the anti!' Their objective is to protect what they believe. They are not there, to debate 'truth,' they already have 'the truth.' Be on the look out, for things in his nature, that are humane, so that when you are 'hung up' on some issue with him, at least you will have that in your own mind. And you may even be able to use it...which will lower the intensity of the moment. That is about all that can take place with 'these personalities.' This is work and this is the reason most of us, must keep our "respectful' distance! Prepare yourself, before the incidents take place...you will less likely to be caught off guard! If it takes years for professionals to help this type personality see how unproductive his ideas and behavior is, where do you think that leaves us? Good luck...and remember only lightening can happen in an instant!
Wow, just checked, I referred exactly 100 people to this website.
Freedompath comments on Jan 20, 2018:
Energizer Bunny...you are! Did you find them in the yellow pages? Or people from your old church group? Hope you don't mind my asking?
Where do you find the feeling of deep connection?
Freedompath comments on Jan 20, 2018:
A feeling of deep connection comes from trust! Trust in yourself and the people you CHOOSE to make your friends. And, trust that you will reconize the other people that do not have your best interest at 'heart!'
We know that people worship religion and its' figures, but what I find equally disturbing is ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 20, 2018:
You had too many questions...I don't worship anybody...nor GODS!
My neighbors have stopped waving at me as I drive by. I wonder why ?
Freedompath comments on Jan 20, 2018:
No need to ask the 'UNIVERSE,' if you don't know! People don't wave (or not) at cars!
Who has the best profile?
Freedompath comments on Jan 20, 2018:
This may sound strange, but do it YOUR way. If you don't approve of afterwards, fix it the way YOU want it again! Let it FIT you!
Does the algorithm for potential matches make sense to anyone?
Freedompath comments on Jan 19, 2018:
Yes, if you relinquish your power to something outside yourself...
Soulmates - is there just the one?
Freedompath comments on Jan 19, 2018:
I think...that should you not be interested in other 'soul mates'...you want have any. A lover is a lover and can be a soul mate, but there are other people that can fit that 'bill' if you allow them to and they may not be a lover!
How can we improve this community?
Freedompath comments on Jan 19, 2018:
Looking for my 100 points for new member...'Dwizzle?' (Sent from Web forward page)
I am highly impressed by the scientific knowldege of Agnostic.
Freedompath comments on Jan 19, 2018:
'It takes one to know one,'...jump in and make yourself part of the 'ring!'
So, what do you think about another looming government shutdown?
Freedompath comments on Jan 19, 2018:
I think the American people are pawns that are being used by the 'powerful' to play a game of 'chicken.' We must brace our self to weather what ever storm we are faced with...if there is another choice, please respond to me asap!
Just thought I'd throw this out there in case I can educate some of you and hopefully clear up some ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 19, 2018:
@lerlo. But, you were the only attorney, that I found in this entire posting! You also, misinterpreted my 'lawyer' statement! I said, 'we need a clever lawyer'...I never indicated anywhere in my responces that I didn't LIKE lawyers...I don't even know any!! (This is an assumption). I would say, that we are the PUBLIC. You would normally be representing the society at large, wouldn't you? Because, you had more facts about the 'justice system' than others on this forum, you dismissed most of the input from it! It seems to me like...you presented your 'book learning,' as more important than a desire to maintain our 'social order!' AND, you know what!! ...my opinion is as valid as the next person's! Here alone, is a 'lack of wisdom' on your part...not everyone's ideas has 'value' in your 'big picture!' Sir, I am a very serious person and mostly 'self-educated'...and on one of your responces, you stated, that 'some of you, just want to talk'(another assumption)...(even the ignorant have ideas)...that was an insult, any way you slice it! You may not have learned much here (I am still kinda of wondering why you are on this forum), because, I have not found another person so far (and you can read what I post), on this forum that treats LIFE like a 'text book'...I mean without...all of what HUMANITY is made up of! HOWEVER, my concern is...justice is at risk, when any person in authority...is the driving force with his NARROW life view... as fair and balanced with the fate of another human being in his hands! I believe the present state of our current social order, stands as an example of MAJOR disarray! If you gained nothing from YOUR own post...I bet, a lot of the rest of us did as this would not be a subject matter, that shallow minded people would tackle!
Just thought I'd throw this out there in case I can educate some of you and hopefully clear up some ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 19, 2018:
@lerlo. But, you were the only attorney, that I found in this entire posting! You also, misinterpreted my 'lawyer' statement! I said, 'we need a clever lawyer'...I never indicated anywhere in my responces that I didn't LIKE lawyers...I don't even know any!! (This is an assumption). I would say, that we are the PUBLIC. You would normally be representing the society at large, wouldn't you? Because, you had more facts about the 'justice system' than others on this forum, you dismissed most of the input from it! It seems to me like...you presented your 'book learning,' as more important than a desire to maintain our 'social order!' AND, you know what!! ...my opinion is as valid as the next person's! Here alone, is a 'lack of wisdom' on your part...not everyone's ideas has 'value' in your 'big picture!' Sir, I am a very serious person and mostly 'self-educated'...and on one of your responces, you stated, that 'some of you, just want to talk'(another assumption)...(even the ignorant have ideas)...that was an insult, any way you slice it! You may not have learned much here (I am still kinda of wondering why you are on this forum), because, I have not found another person so far (and you can read what I post), on this forum that treats LIFE like a 'text book'...I mean without...all of what HUMANITY is made up of! HOWEVER, my concern is...justice is at risk, when any person in authority...is the driving force with his NARROW life view... as fair and balanced with the fate of another human being in his hands! I believe the present state of our current social order, stands as an example of MAJOR disarray! If you gained nothing from YOUR own post...I bet, a lot of the rest of us did as this would not be a subject matter, that shallow minded people would tackle!
Trump Administration Creates New Religious Freedom Gestapo
Freedompath comments on Jan 19, 2018:
Yes, I saw that and wondered how in this world can a law be created that supports 'religious objection' in the caring or health field? The PEOPLE in our WHITEHOUSE have gone FURTHER mad!
Why is the world so intent on not conversing, I love video chats with friends, my only link to the ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
I am not really clear on my reason for not using face time. Other than I don't like it. I would rather text or speak on the phone...and I don't mind typing lots of thoughts!
Hello; just saw one of my favoritest heathens share the link for this; and so I wanted to give it a ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
You most likely will find another 'love'...in the mean time, enjoy all your moments and strengthen your resolve, to love and support yourself, no matter how many 'lovers' may cross your path!
Just moved back to the crotch of the Bible Belt and can't seem to find like minded folks.
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
Being from the Bible Belt, myself...you do need to find some like minded people! It becomes a lonely place for a non-believer among the herds of Christians! We all need a support system of some kind...even people with an independent spirit!
I can't imagine telling anyone, especially, one with a terminal illness, kidney cancer.
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
That is like what a Christian would say. Everything, is always outside themselves! It leaves a non-believer feeling 'unsupported'...we just want to know another person hears our 'hurting plea.' Do YOU care? Do I matter to you? Will I be ok? Those are the kind of words a 'non-believer wants to hear!
There is a utilitarian Church right by my house thinking of attending services.
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
A wonderful place where contemplation is allowed in abundance...not all Unitarian Universalist groups are alike! My phone kept autocorrecting the word Unitarian wrong!!!
There is a utilitarian Church right by my house thinking of attending services.
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
A wonderful place where contemplation is allowed in abundance...
How far would you travel to meet someone you are interested in?
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
Gosh! Go anywhere and as far as financially possible! It is wonderful to have friends in far away places! However, if you are set, on an 'out-of-this world' romantic encounter...you most likely will be disappointed. But, true and caring friends, will supplement 'out-of-this world' romance on any day!
In one moment I am born, living and taking my last breath.
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
Now...take a deep breath and revel in the wonder of it all!
I suspect a scammer in my messages, what should I do?
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
I got sucked in by someone that responded to a comment...the storis seem plausible for a moment. I did 'block,' before I was ask for money so he could 'return to the states to strengthen out his affairs.'
Just thought I'd throw this out there in case I can educate some of you and hopefully clear up some ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
@lerlo, I want to sincerely thank you for your post. I must admit that at the beginning, I was a bit mystified as to why you posted your Kevorkian case...as example to teach us something about sucuide. But after reading ALL the posts...I came to the realization of WHY our justice system is not fair and just. Without, your honest and candid responses, this would not have revealed itself. You have expert skills in where/how to find the law that covers the unlawful charge. It appears you are skilled in applying 'that law' (as with Kevorkian). However, you became an untrained expert on your 'subject', even down to analyzing certain drawings by Kevorkian and his behavior towards a patient's time of death and guessing on people's motives (I.e. woman who was 'tired of caring for her husband'). But, in all your responces...you lacked WISDOM about 'sucuide,' much less on 'death and dying.' Where was your life experiences? Even when prompted...you recited 'codes' and 'laws' and 'regulations!' What kind of a world would we have, if everyone lived their life in a bubble like that? If you noticed it was pointed out, that your position was '10 against...to 01!' So NOW, I understand why district attorneys want concede even when more evidence is brought to light and sometimes even when 'scientific' DNA is presented! You developed great skills to read and apply the 'rule of law,' when people break the law. But somewhere you must have blocked out what it takes to obtain wisdom! Because, I never found a thing that was WISE, in your post! I believe this is the reason you received so much flack! If this sounds like I am 'beating up' on you, I AM NOT! You inadvertently helped me to understand why people must have clever lawyers and luck to get "real justice' in our present system! Just like 'book' learning is never enough...a DA without wisdom, but great 'law knowledge' will give us 'the luck of the draw' in our justice system! If this sounds harsh...it is! Even so, I still feel grateful to you for this revelation!
By accepting my lack of control and understanding of complicated things.
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
I have found the same...it seems like 'real freedom,' from trying to justify anything...but, seeking the truth at the same time!
Do you think atheists are actively seeking to destroy religion, as many religious people claim?
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
I have never met any atheist that wanted to destroy anything other than eradicate ignorance! They have more insight about themselves and mostly act reasonably...even when passionate.
Just thought I'd throw this out there in case I can educate some of you and hopefully clear up some ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
@Lerlo...as a witness to so many unfortunate and horrible things over the span of 78 years, I have learned that it is not the criminal that creates the most harm in the world. It is from the ignorance of otherwise good people that can and does cause much harm! I myself, have been one of those people! But, I never give up on making adjustments...even here in old age!
Just thought I'd throw this out there in case I can educate some of you and hopefully clear up some ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
@lwelo, I have not thought of Kevorkian in years! I learned what I could from that situation and moved on. You did not share what YOU had learned 'OUT' of that experience. From your writings...you seem to be re-litgating the Kevorkian case. I am at a disavantage here without research and only some pretty clear memories. I do know without research, that 'life and death' issues have been taking place every day, month and year, since the 'Kevorkian case.' Using just one example to prove your point, seems shortsighted to me. I also, sense a 'put down'..."Thanks for the psychoanalysis," which helps prove my point...your "world view" seems pretty much, 'black and white!' Good luck with that!
Just thinking that the only reason I hold out for the spiritual or supernatural is to get an ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
I AM so sorry that you lost your precious son. I have never lost a child and I believe that would be the ultimate hurt! In time your heart will heal and your son will just become a part of your nature. I lost another friend over the holidays, myself. But, I believe the love that was shared will remind us to carry on, in appreciation of all that is good and lovely in this world. My heart goes out to you.
Just thought I'd throw this out there in case I can educate some of you and hopefully clear up some ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
@lerlo, it appears to me that you operate in a 'black and white' manner. You have no grays in your concepts! And, you make more assumptions than I am conformable with! What you might do, and what another person might do, under the same circumstances just might be altogether different! I have never met two people who behaved the same way about hardly anything. That being said, I am also wondering why this issue with Kevorkian is coming up for you so many years later? And, it would seem by your writings that you would handle the Kevorkian issue the same way that you did, back in the day. Yes...YOU know the law...or laws! But, it has been my experience that as my life has progressed over 50 of my last 78 years...that as i took in more information, it altered my ideas to the point, that my position today no where even resembles how I once understood certain issues...not even 25 years ago. I also may be 'a law abiding citizen' but I would not hesitate to break a law if it made no sense, for a particular moment! I don't make my own laws...neither will I follow 'laws' in blind faith...and I will take responsibility for my actions! I might hold myself to a higher moral code than the average person. I appreciate your responces, but there is still a question in my mind, why you bring YOUR Kevorkian issue up after so many years? Because, I have learned to move on from any past experience, asap...(I wonder if I could bring up something from just 5 yrs ago!) Each one of us must settle in our own mind, the life and death issue! And, I would never impose what I might do on any other person! I believe you can do the same at this moment in time. If we all become slaves, I guess that will change!
Does Israel Discriminate Against Arabs?
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
I personally believe so! I have known Jewish people who were on the side of Palestine! And they had experience in Israel with military metal recycling. Israel must be kept pumped up by Christians so that the rebuilding of Israel can be fulfilled according to the Bible. Christian organizations send money to Israel on a regular basis and our government also sends aid (and to Palestine)! That whole situation is all wrapped up with Religions even non-Jewish, ones!
There are no problems.
Freedompath comments on Jan 18, 2018:
Well, I think I might be confused! Bain functionality breaks down what we perceive. If I perceive that I have a problem, I will need to evaluate the evidence or lack thereof, surrounding what I perceive as a problem...wouldn't I? At what point will I know that I do/or don't, have a problem?
How did God create the sun on the 4th day?
Freedompath comments on Jan 17, 2018:
The biggest question is how you can convince a modern day person, this is somehow true? Yes, there are people who will argue that everything in Bible is the word of God and it is true. And, how do they know? Faith! I always wondered, how come God, could/would only speak to the people so long ago in the past?
Pat Robertson: Non-Religious Children Should Be Beaten Until They Respect Christian Beliefs
Freedompath comments on Jan 17, 2018:
...just like the Native American people were subjected to being kept in cellar like holes until they converted. After i discovered the truth about how religious zealots can treat children and other human beings...nothing surprises me. AND, they hand it down from one generation to the next...or hand it down to captive bible thunbers!
Anyone get married to the same person twice?
Freedompath comments on Jan 17, 2018:
Yes, my daughter married her ex-2 times. It did not last! Why? That would be complicated to answer. I would say, she might know now after being married for 28 yrs to another man...but, we haven't brought it up in years! I kept trying to return to my ex, off and on for 5 (wasted) years. I now believe, that you can't go back! At least it is rare...
Just thought I'd throw this out there in case I can educate some of you and hopefully clear up some ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 17, 2018:
#lerlo, You seem stuck on 'The Law.' How is it that every "against the law,' situation, has some way around it? The 'right' attorney is needed and the 'luck of the draw,' for jury duty! Sir, you may have lots of facts, but it appears you could have a 'blind spot?' You reported that a man's mask was removed, to calm the man down...but you did not report that the man HIMSELF said 'stop' or 'proceed!' And, you added as if you were privy...'wife'...'she wanted him dead, because she was tired of taking care of him NO DOUBT(capital letters mone)!' Was, this a fact or assumption on your part? Sounds like mindreading to me! Maybe I am way out here in SOME field on this, but you tell your side as if you were there, 'like a fly on the wall,' reporting back to us! You make so many assumptions that it causes me to question your reasoning! With my type of personality, I would not allow my doctor to be consulted, if I decided to commit suicide. Who is he/she to block my free will? And, I might have already discussed it with my doctor...not to support me in dying...but support for me as a person! ...'pushing the medical profession to work on pain treatments,' ...'and not sentencing people to death'...shows a lack of knowledge on the nature of pain! 'They' developed pain treatments and we have thousands of people dying each day, from their pain treatment! Where have you been hiding out, all this time? And, let me add here, that this Country by law, has put people to death in...I believe every state in this country!! So is it 'putting people to death' that bothers you or are you on some kind of 'late life' campagn to 'justify' your position in the Kevorkian case? In my opinion, we should have the right to die when we choose. If a person should be in some delusional state, then, very attempt should be made to bring that person around. It is not the person that chooses to exit, that may be having the difficulty. It is the 'other' people who must face the loss and sadness (psychic pain and a challege to a person's belief system) that would take place around this 'life or death' event. I hope that you find the law, that puts this issue to rest...at least for you. I frankly struggled with your last statement...'violate the equal protection of all of our rights to die.' ???
Just thought I'd throw this out there in case I can educate some of you and hopefully clear up some ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 17, 2018:
Can you say for certain that Kevorkian was obsessed with death or was he attempting to shock 'the senses' into facing another reality? Each person has so many 'sides'...were you witness to all of Kevorkian's, traits? Sometimes, different personality traits, only show up in, out of the way settings. I say this, because it seems that different people perceive me differently and even then...differently, in different settings. And on close examination, I believe that I am not the same with all people. I never had a personal experience with Kevorkian, but i did follow him and his his ideas on assisted sucuide. But, I never believed that he was obsessed with death. From a distance, it appeared that he wanted to assist in releasing another human from his pain/misery. Could he have been more in 'tune' with the pain that some people find themselves in? There was a time that I experienced a 'living hell,' from physical and mental pain. And likely, others have had it much worse. Could his actions have come from the 'obsessed' notion of relieving pain? I have seen documenories, on assisted sucuide, (with Kevorkian, too) for patients with terminal illnesses, after their condition had progressed into unbearable pain. There are assisted suicides, covertly carried out, today, for this very reason. But, much exploring has taken place before making this decision, (which I recall with Kevorkian). It is a slippery slope, for sure! But, can you say for certain that Kevorkian was obsessed with death or pain?
Been months since I've been up here, but felt like I needed to vent some.
Freedompath comments on Jan 17, 2018:
When we leave 'church,' it changes everything. No more Sunday Church gatherings, choir practice and all the other activities that take place there...no set aside time that you decaded just for the "Lord." If you leave overnight, I can believe it is similar to 'culture shock!" I came away gradually, so it was a little easier, but not by much! Seeing people on their way to church, still taps a kind of longing...but not for the indoctrination, it is the sense of community. Plus, that deepest of all ideas, that I was doing something for the Lord, by presenting myself at Church, was hard to drop. But, with time and searching to know what you really 'believe in', eventually you come to terms with what you believe and make a new life, that fits better than the old one. At least that is what I found...I am more authentic now.
Correct me if I'm wrong here.
Freedompath comments on Jan 17, 2018:
Political...that is what's on the minds of agnostics (and others) at the moment. We don't go around like Evangelicals talking about our religion all the time! We wonder and contemplate and struggle with current issues! Certain political issues are heightened at the moment and we are 'expressing'. It is not easy to jump from one idea to 25 more...so scan the list and envolve yourself in those post that speaks to 'where' you are at the moment!
I don't mean to be critical but the level of poor writing, punctuation, and grammar (more-so than ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 17, 2018:
I believe your frustration is warrented. But, there are several reasons that people don't write well. For one, typing on our phone is not perfect and auto-check on certain phones can add letters or even change a word. Sometimes, we hit 'something' in error and it went out before we could correct it. Then there are the people who have not done a lot of writing and their writing comes off as crude. But, I believe everyone has a 'story' and I want to honor that. Sure, I struggle, but once upon a time, people struggled for me and I am grateful. So I guess, you can choose not to read 'stuff' that you have to struggle over, but I wonder if you are doing yourself any favors?
I can't seam to ignore religious comments
Freedompath comments on Jan 16, 2018:
Well, good luck on presenting your words in a way that the average Christian will take to heart! I find it most difficult and finally, after many, many years, I now give little feedback that has never gone anywhere to begin with. It is hard to reason with an Idealogy that has no basis in reason. Slowly, but surely, I love them where they are...and 'pass on by!'
If your religion is worth killing for...please start with yourself
Freedompath comments on Jan 14, 2018:
Where are the omijs when I need them? Makes perfect sense to me...
Facts vs. Feelings: Which is greater?
Freedompath comments on Jan 14, 2018:
My feelings on the 'whole' are created out of facts!
Why are so many more people in prison hold a religious believe, than atheists
Freedompath comments on Jan 14, 2018:
I think that is an easy question to answer. First, people in prison are at their most vulnerable. Second, they are scared...living so closely with people who have so many different personalities. Who among us has a wide range of personility study in a setting...that intimate?. Third, the prevailing indoctrination held by other inmates will be, mostly protestant or catholic religions. Forth, they will merge for safety reasons and may even hold a notion of self improvement! And lastly, religious organizations love to 'help' these 'setting ducks!' The Christian churches are the driving force in prisons...even among the staff!
My 32-year old sister just found out that despite having a hysterectomy two years ago, her cervical ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 14, 2018:
You are supported! I have experience with having a daughter develop breast cancer. At the time it was a shock to the senses! Focus, on 'wholeness' but, grieve your loss...it is a kind of loss. Live each day with your full self, good, bad and indifferent! That way you will always win, regardless of cancer!
When fascism comes to America it will be wrapped in a flag and carrying a cross.
Freedompath comments on Jan 14, 2018:
I am hopeful and trying to stay clear of denial...but fascism has followed a pattern!
There has been a lot of comments about Trump and his fitness for the office of President.
Freedompath comments on Jan 14, 2018:
Oh yes! Having lots of experience in my background with fundamentalism and evangelicals...it is a sickening thought! Pence would simply, silently and without consciousness apply HIS beliefs to laws and government! Trump, promotes his insanity out front and with visible force!
Real beauty is not seen with the eyes.
Freedompath comments on Jan 14, 2018:
I was touched deeply by your post! 'There are none so blind as those who cannot see!' I hope I got the quote correct! Thanks for the reminder!
Dumb Religious News Stories No.
Freedompath comments on Jan 14, 2018:
I wonder where I would fit in that poll? Growing up in fundamentalism I prayed to the 'God' in the sky. As I matured, I prayed to some 'force!' I faught with the 'force'...and finally...I now pray to MY 'higher nature!' And, I use some of the same words, although my expectations are completely opposite from my beginnings!
What song would you want played for your funeral?
Freedompath comments on Jan 13, 2018:
"Good by My Love, Goodby, with Demis Roussos... the Greek version
Have you given big donations to a church?
Freedompath comments on Jan 13, 2018:
I do not give to religious or church groups...I only donate to a few charities like The Southern Proverty Law Ctr and real people who are in real need.
She forced a crucifix down her ‘possessed’ daughter’s throat.
Freedompath comments on Jan 13, 2018:
I could not go with murder. She most likely has a personality disorder from the lack of acceptance from her own childhood caregivers. She found the 'reflection' of herself in her daughter and wanted to 'stamp' it out! In short she killed her daughter, trying to save her from what she persevered as something 'bad!' A subconscious reaction, from her unhealed wounded self.
Is it more important to be liked or respected?
Freedompath comments on Jan 13, 2018:
In my earlier life cycle, I twisted myself into a pretzel to be liked. Maybe, people liked me, but since it wasn't me...what good did I get out of it? Now, I work, to please no one...but seek to earn respect, by acting from authenticity, I feel like a real person, now. Respect has long lasting effects..
Any good book recommendation on religion written by secular authors?
Freedompath comments on Jan 13, 2018:
I would recommend,... If You Meet The Buddha On The Road, Kill Him....Sheldon B Kopp. Last printing, 1981
Good morning Fellow Heathens! I would like to hear your thoughts on free will.
Freedompath comments on Jan 13, 2018:
On 'free will,' maybe we are acting freely. Can a person behave completely outside his environment, or his own physical and mental development? What about brain functions that have been altered at differect times by toxins or injury that interferes with...or changes the brain's previous operating system? We would still be operating freely but under different circumstances! Does, a mentally ill person operate from 'free will?' Seems like they would be in their own mind...and aren't we all operating out of our own mind...at least the majority of the time? Am I allowing outside forces to derail my 'free will' and could I stop them even if I wanted to? I behave freely depending on different factors at different times!
Pastor Andy Savage gets standing ovation after admitting to "sexual incident" with teen 20 years ago...
Freedompath comments on Jan 13, 2018:
I saw that news and I am confused as to why he was given a standing ovation? Somehow, I see that admission as something that quietly needs to be digested. What was the standing ovation for? Was it because, he stood up in front of the people, and admitted his 'sin' and that gave the congregation a feeling of relief from their own 'sins'? His 'sin' harmed another person...when have we given a standing ovation for someone admitting their harmful actions? It seems dismissive to me...just no big deal. But even with that, why a standing ovation? Something is out of kilter to me, on the 'standing ovation,' and that admission from the pulpit...which is where I thought it took place!
My adoptive parents are gay and have been together for 38 years now.
Freedompath comments on Jan 12, 2018:
I have first hand knowledge with lots of gay people. But, I have yet to meet one, that chose that life style! In fact, they would say, if choice was an option, they would have chose 'straight!' Aside from experimentation, I don't believe that people can override their true nature! Maybe, people are bi- by nature! Even if it was a choice, what difference would that make to me? I see a person, there first...then I discover his/her attributes...and I found both male and female in all of us!!
Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.
Freedompath comments on Jan 12, 2018:
COMPLETELY AGREE...
Donald Trump has gone nuts and has tried to get the book banned.
Freedompath comments on Jan 12, 2018:
His followers want find out on 'Fox' and 'right wing talk shows'...and they stay far away from the rest of our social order!
What Type Of Diet Do You Personally, Or Your Family Practice?
Freedompath comments on Jan 12, 2018:
I also try to eat what I love, I don't want it to disagree with me!
& this clown is running for Senate in MY state! The horror, the horror!" [youtube.com]
Freedompath comments on Jan 12, 2018:
Oh! How I empathize...it is beyond my comprehension, too!
I thought we had separation of church and state. Why does the senate open with a prayer?
Freedompath comments on Jan 12, 2018:
This administration is almost completely made up of EVANGELICALS and 'far right wingers'...period!
Is President Trump responsible for the current success of Economy?
Freedompath comments on Jan 12, 2018:
Economy's don't take place like driving through, fast food restaurants...
Does anyone else live in a location where they play religious music in Department and Grocery ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 12, 2018:
Makes me crazy, too!!
Did you experience Religious Trauma Syndrome in leaving religion?
Freedompath comments on Jan 10, 2018:
There is safety on numbers...separated from the herd, left me exposed and vulnerable! It takes courage to take a stand, alone! It took a long while before I felt grounded.
Why do so many people in the US seek out therapy?
Freedompath comments on Jan 10, 2018:
It is not a fad...not in my case! And, I am surprised to find someone say that they hear a lot of people are getting therapy. Also, 'physical therapy' is therapy! In my particular area of Ga...I rarely hear anyone say they are in therapy. I had many years of psychological therapy, due to depression. I am mostly free of depression now. My religious upbringing may have been a big factor in my depression. The evangelicals and a lot of religious people use their religion as their therapy. But, it did not fit me. It took a lot of therapy to weed out the damage that it created in my nature.
According to the bible; Will Suffering Ever End? Would you say yes or no and why?
Freedompath comments on Jan 9, 2018:
There are two kinds of suffering, physical and mental or emotional. They may all be connected somehow. Now, all humans are not at the same developmental place in their life, so it stands to reason that when anyone evolves out of his/her suffering, others are still on their individual path and may still be suffering. It may appear the 'whole' of humanity is suffering, but can that be true? And, is having 'one's resolve tested, suffering? I think not! Maybe, we need to look at suffering in a broader light. Since leaving the Bible and religions behind, I find that I have a better grip on my own reality, thus my suffering has desolved!
How do you cope with the fact that any day you will die and that will be the end?
Freedompath comments on Jan 9, 2018:
Having spent a big portion of my life in depression and constantly feeling as if I was dying and now...somehow being mostly free of depression...death seems like a natural outcome of having lived! I have no fear of death, nor am I worried that it will come to soon. And, I harbor no desire to live forever. Yet, I am not finished with life...
Why is it the more I read into the history of western civilization I only grow more disgust and ...
Freedompath comments on Jan 8, 2018:
I submit to you that it is mainly 'technology!' But, it brought with it a double edge sword! And, it could hold equal values, good and bad! Some of us may have a greater need, for basic human needs and have difficulty obsorbing so much technology! We simply can't find enough ways to use it in our life, without giving up too much of our 'self!'. It seems more like our society, depends on the 'monetory' value in everything, including with that technology! That is sure how I feel. It seems humans are only needed to promote technology! RO
Do you support Trump?
Freedompath comments on Dec 25, 2017:
I realize the office of our President deserves respect, but I CANNOT respect trump! Not now, not ever...not as long as he behaves beneath the office of THE PRESIDENT of the United States! I will regard him as a human being and do not wish him 'ill will'...but do not ask or force me to respect someone for whom I can find...not one reason to do so! That would be insane!
I'm an Atheist, but being here alone tonight, my loved ones dead or very far away really sucks.
Freedompath comments on Dec 25, 2017:
I do not believe your being an atheist has much to do with your feelings of aloneness at this holiday time. We are basically alone inside ourselves. And it seems most pronounced during these holidays! No one else will ever go deep within us as that is impossible! But, once that is acknowledged, we realize that it is not a flaw and can get on with doing more to simply interact with others that will give us our place in this world full of 'others!' Some of which are really enjoying themselves!! Sometimes, that is the best that can happen...at these times! I have had many of these bad holiday 'times!' But, fearlessly looking into my inner person, has shed more senseable light on the matter! Good luck, Ruth OKelley
I DON'T WANT A TAX CUT I want maintained bridges I want less infant mortality I want well-paid ...
Freedompath comments on Dec 23, 2017:
Here at nearly 78 years old...and with that life long experience, I whole hardedly agree with your post! There is not enough space to write my wide range of good and bad experiences...of my lifetime! All I can say, is...I was awake! What about the people coming behind (us) me? What will they find in the future for this society? Will they need to pick up the tab for past generations? It hurts me, to think about what this 'tax scam'...outcome could be? Will the 1% take their loot to some island and stay there? OR, will the 'lessor folks', become slaves of a sort? I simply see America...as way out of balance! Who can really say what the final outcomes will look like! But, 'greed' has taken on a whole new meaning!! Ruth O'Kelley

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