What does it mean when someone says 'I don't want a commitment'?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

It means you're OK (in their mind) but you're probably not "the one" and they want to be able to look around some more.

What's in your garden?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

I am so excited to see green things starting to appear in my yard. Every summer for the past 3 or 4 years I have grown tomatoes. There is nothing so sublime as a tomato fresh off the vine. They taste like sunshine.

OK.

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

Yes, god is a total myscoginistic sadomasochistic bastard.

How do you express hope or emphathy to someone who is dealing with a terminal desase?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

I just let them know I wish for them the best outcome possible. That means something different to everyone.

Why is it so important to break someone else's faith?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

I am happy to leave folks to their delusions as long as they're not trying to sell it to me.

When looking for a significant other, there are lots of easy to detect deal-breakers like smoking, ...

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

Severe depression. If your depression issues are so bad you can't work I'm thinking you probaby shouldn't be dating either. And with those depression issues were issues with Mama. My doctor called him a hot mess,and she told me he wasn't helping my hot mess either. She was right.

What's your favorite horror film?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

I loathe horror films. My imagination is good enough that I don't need to add fuel to my anxieties. Nope, never, ever,ever.

Level 10 means...

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

It means you've dedicated lots of time and opinions to this site. I just hit level 8. I'm going to be level 8 for a very long time.

What dating sites have you tried and did you make any relationships or friendships from it?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

I have been on Mingle, POF, OKC, Elite Singles, Zoosk, EHarmony, and Match. I don't like paying money. I have tried a few local sites that cost dearly and did not get any better results. I've had one friend come out of it, or one person who still has my number who I haven't blocked.

I keep hearing that praying is a wonderful thing.

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

I remember being told that prayer doens't necessarily change things, but that prayer changes you. And I quickly disproved that be praying that god would change my heart and make me content with my now ex husband. Never let it be said I didn't try. I've also heard that prayer is not unlike mediatation which is very healthy and relaxing. I just skip the prayer part and go directly to meditation. And I'm pretty sure those blathering about thoughts and prayers are neihter thinking or praying. I'm positive they're not thinking, I don't care if they are praying.

Interviews are stressful, what are some of the best (worst?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

If you are job searching, wondering if your office/work environment is "normal" or needing advice on resumes or cover letters, please check out the blog AskAManager.org. Great, great, great advice and often funny too. She has articles just like that. https://money.usnews.com/money/blogs/outside-voices-careers/2013/04/15/what-are-the-worst-questions-job-interviewers-ask http://www.askamanager.org/2009/07/stupid-interview-questions-and-win-free.html What kind of tree would you be? Seriously who asks that?

I am at home recovering from surgery.

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

I wish you a speedy recovery and WTG for your daughter! And yes, it is so amazing when our children become compassionate, competent adults. Pat yourself on the back for having been a good parent and turning out a good kid.

For those of you that are thinking of extra income with Uber/Lyft

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

Good luck to you!

Would you want to know at a very early age when you would die?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

I've always felt like you should live as if it were your last day, because how do you know it won't be? There are no gurarantees. If I die today I have no unfinished business of any real consequence. Those that are important to me know I love them. My manager is goign to miss me, as will the team because we're short handed as it is. I just hope someone misses me in time for the kids to come in a rescue the kitties. So, no, I don't want to know when I am going to die. Whenever it comes, I'm as ready as I'm going to be.

Telling an atheist "I'll pray for you" is just as offensive as telling a Christian "I'll think ...

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

I like that, will have to remember it.

I am in back in the dating world.

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

I am pretty straightforward about it. I'm not a believer, and I only go to church when one of my offspring specifically requests my presence. When I was MOB (mother of the bride) I went to church, I even read scripture. I let them know that I will not have them tell me they are praying for me or otherwise trying to convert me.

Just some photos I have made.

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

Way cool!!

I couldn't agree more.

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

My second marriage ended because he was only contributing financially, he did not give emotional support, or companionship, and was happy to abdicate most of the parenting. Our kids thought we should have divorced years earlier.

"Never ask a woman her age" and other stupid rules. Who comes up with this nonsense?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

Some women get uptight about their age. Not me, I freakin feel every year and I own it proudly. Of course my view is skewed a tad, my mom died at 45, and I am thrilled to have lived past that. Now the rule of not asking a woman if she is pregnant unless you are seeing the baby exit her body is a good rule. Trust me on that one. Stupid gender rules that annoy me. 1. Boys will be boys. No, any child will act like a little shit if they have not been raised right. 2. Men/boys should not show emotion. That is so hugely unhealthy for so many young men. 3. Men should man up or grow a pair. That goes with above. And really you want tough. Balls are delicate and tender. A vagina can take a pounding AND push a baby out. How totally tough and awesome is that! 4. Here is a tough one, insults to women are that they are bitches, witches, frigid, ugly, etc. Insults to men is that they are a son of a bitch which insults his mother, or that he is a bastard which again insults his mother. 5. That my clothing could 'distract' a male or makes a man want to rape/hurt me. Seriously, No. Again, we need to teach men/boys better. 6. I was told to dumb down to attract a boyfriend. I could go on but I do have a life, or want to pretend so anyway.

"Oh my god!", "go to hell!", "Jesus Christ!", "soulmate" and other phrases featuring religious ...

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

I try to keep my language pretty clean because I am on the phone a good deal of the day and don't need anyone tattling to my manager about my potty mouth. And I have a granddaughter that will start talking soon. I use Jeebus Christopher and OMG frequently. I haven't told anyone to go to hell in many years and my response when told to go there is that I've already been there and got kicked out. I can be creative, succinct, and close to rude without being vulgar. I like to be creative rather than vulgar. I am not sure soul is an entirely religous construct. From Wikipedia: Greek philosophers, such as Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle, understood that the soul must have a logical faculty, the exercise of which was the most divine of human actions. At his defense trial, Socrates even summarized his teaching as nothing other than an exhortation for his fellow Athenians to excel in matters of the psyche since all bodily goods are dependent on such excellence. Would you prefer psychemate? With my luck I'll find a psychomate and we will be infamous.

That’s the problem with indoctrination—the whole point of .

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

Pastors call it motivation, kinda like sales managers.

Atheist Debates - The Good Book and the Worth of Women - YouTube

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

This is wonderful and so accurate.

There are some out there stupid enough to do it too..

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

I kinda wish they would!!

Does anyone else have abandonment issues?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

My mom died when I was 14. My dad was remote and then remarried 6 months later. Yes, I have some abandonment issues.

Sexual identities and labeling others.

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

I work in disability claims, I've had a few claimants in the gender transformation process. I try to be sensitive to their wishes, but when I have a traditionally female name on my form I'm going to use an appropriate pronoun. And I do appologize when I mess up, and so far everyone has been cool with it. My real frustration is with doctors who try to hedge around what procedures were done. If you performed a mastectomy say that. Chest alignment surgery doesn't tell me squat. You created a vagina, that one is harder, but tell me that and I will figure out how to code it. When I grew up you were either male or female. I know there are variations, but this is one area I really need patience and maybe some hand holding. I don't think I'm making judgements, but I don't want to navigate a mine field either. And frankly there are details I'd really rather not know, just tell me what I need to know that is PG13.

Question for the Cat Slaves here. Are your cats declawed? If not, do you trim their claws?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

My ginger tabby is the first cat I've had that is not declawed. The new baby is also not declawed. They do not go outside, though the baby wants to. This morning I wrestled both of them down to trim their claws. I try to do it every other week, and in the evening. I've been negligent, and they've been rather destructive. This morning seemed like the best time to do it, but they were squirmier and full of energy. In the evenings they seem to be more relaxed and calmer (more tired) The robovac was also running this morning which I'm sure also added to their stress. Lessons learned for next time. They're over it now, had their breakfasts and taking their morning naps.

What's the worst food in the world?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:

And here I thought I was so adventurous knowing what lutefisk was. No, I just don't do weird "foods"

Another Death with Dignity State

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 2, 2018:

I told my kids a few years ago, no extreme measures and no chemical interventions. There is a really good book by Atul Gawande called Being Mortal that looks at end of life and aging issues.

My 12-yo daughter revealed to me yesterday that she’s gay. Should I...

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 2, 2018:

I actually had a similar discussion with my children, and I told them there is nothing that would ever make me love them any less than I ever did. I don' t care who they love, who ever they love I will love too, because they love them. I will be their rock and their protector, I will be their champion, their Mama bear, and I will lay down my life protecting them.

How much do you admit to being guilty?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 2, 2018:

When I screw up I admit it.

Is it just me or is there a positive correlation between trump suppoerts and ball caps?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 2, 2018:

I've never been a hat fan.

What is something you have tried, but will never do again?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 2, 2018:

Beer. It doesn't like me. Makes me burp for a week on just a sip.

Where do you like to buy most of your food?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 2, 2018:

We have Fresh Thyme in Omaha, I really like it. We have Whole Paycheck, Natural Grocerers, and Trader Joe's.

These Christian Break-Up Lines Will End Your Relationship in a God-Pleasing Way – Friendly Atheist

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 2, 2018:

Sick, sick, sick. Lame.

Pennsylvania Church Will Bless Assault Rifles In Preparation For Christ’s Return

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 2, 2018:

As far as I am concerned the rapture cannot happen soon enough and get rid of the morons! And yes, I realize what I just said. We're stuck with them forever.

Traveling

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 2, 2018:

I am not good at choosing favorites. I enjoyed the Pacific Northwest hugely. However I also love the history and culture of DC. I love the mountains of Colorado, but the theater and excitement that is New York. And there are places I haven't been yet sso I don't know if they could be my favorite or not.

Do you appreciate philosophical poetry?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 2, 2018:

I don't go into raptures over poetry, some I like, some is meh.

I have no problem shaming America.

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 2, 2018:

LOL!! I agree! Guns or big ass trucks!

100% agree

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

Nice, I want that.

I wonder if you think sugar is a bad product?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

I avoid the good/bad argument. Lets just say that sugar is highly addictive, as long as you eat it in moderation it will not harm you. Moderation is they key and the hardest thing to do. I try to avoid sugar and sometimes even succeed.

I'm sitting here mentally preparing myself to go to my martial arts class while in the process of ...

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

I don't have any disabilities, but I talk to people every day that do. Hello, I'm possibly your claims examiner. Actually the odds of that are pretty slim. I say do what you need to do for your mental health as long as you can do it and it isn't further disabling you.

I hate when that happens

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

So, got to talking with my new manager, turns out we both grew up in a small town 150 miles west of where we are now. Turns out we graduated from the same High School. She was born the year I graduated.

I hate when that happens

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

LOL!!

What Keeps You Where You Are?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

First of all read the blog AskAManager.org. Fascinating workplace discussions. What keeps me in Omaha. 3 adult kids, one grandchild, one on the way. I've already moved 23 times, I really don't want to move again. Courtesy of the military I've lived in Europe and Japan, and all over the US. I could move again, but I'm pretty vested in being near the grandbabies as my kids rarely lived near grandparents. I could get a job almost anywhere but really I'm 60, I don't wanna change if I don't have to.

What makes you happy more than anything else?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

Spending time with my kids and grand daughter.

What to do about my father?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

I'm sorry for your situation. I never had that dilemma.

What doesn't impress you?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

Flashy cars don't impress me, or lots of money. Too much jewelry or too many tatts don't impress me. I like tatts, but it doesn't have to cover allll your skin. Too many piercings don't impress me. Guns don't impress me, big trucks, or bad attitude.

Kroger to raise age limit on gun sales to 21 - POLITICO

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

Yeah Kroger! All this time I thought they just sold groceries.

Do you like eggs?

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

I eat eggs fairly often, at least once a week. I like them every way and any way. Never tried them raw, I think the texture would not be pleasant to me.

Rock Carpet...

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

Cool! That is soooo pretty!! And durable!

We just released iPhone and Android apps for Agnostic.

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

Does this mean I have to remember my user name and password? I think this is great, but I think it is likely to gt me fired. This site is way too addictive, if I can take it to work too.... Tough decision.

Death without God

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

Pity the poor fools who have had voluntary lobotomies.

Goddamnit! I just realized it's my birthday!.

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

Happy Birthday! I just turned 60 in January, in fact pointed out to Admin that my age had not changed on my profile, they fixed it. I NEVER lie about my age, I'm damn proud of it. First, I don't look 60. Second, my mom never made it to 60 so I relish every year, every day that I get. Third, what the hell, age is only a number, it isn't WHO I am, just a reflection of the number of hears I've walked on this earth.

Torture Doesn't Work - YouTube

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 1, 2018:

I have always suspected this was the case.

What are 5 useless facts about you?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 28, 2018:

1. I am the 4th out of six children, first daughter. It was like the folks had a family of boys then a family of girls. 2. Of my 5 siblings, one has been married to the same person for over 30 years, one is a felon, one is a deadbeat dad and we have no idea where he is. One is a disabled vet, one is junkyard dog mean, and then there's me. 3. I make my own toothpaste (yes, mine has charcoal in it) and make my own deodorant, soap, lip balm, and other personal care items. 4. I cannot give blood in the US and haven't been able to for over 25 years. I lived in Germany in the 80s, and ate German cooked foods. I could be a carrier of Cruezfeldt Jakob disease, an acute spongiform encephalopahty. IOW mad cow. The baby I gave birth to in Germany CAN give blood in the US. Not fair. And if it is going to affect me it is going to start any time now. 5. My dad's baby brother married my mom's baby sister. So I had a double aunt and uncle and 2 double cousins.

Hello everyone! I went to get my haircut and got butchered! Why don't hairdressers do what you ask...

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 28, 2018:

My hair is fine and very curly, think poodle. Doesn't matter how the stylist cuts it, it is going to look different each time I blow it out, IF I blow it out. I keep it short, just faster to deal with.

Does anyone here have an account with [khanacademy.org] ? I used to spend so much time here.

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 28, 2018:

This is funny. I work with them through my job. I never looked into what they did. Wow, The things I learn on here!

Do you prefer showers or baths?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 28, 2018:

I don't shower daily as my skin dries out so dang fast, getting older sux. I wash my hair when I shower, days I don't shower I wet it down. It's short, fine, and curly like a poodle and sleeping on it makes it weird. I wet it and let it re curl or dry it straighter (it never gets totally straight without products and lots of work, no time for that). I do like occasional baths, usually with Epsom salts, essential oils and some moisturizing oils. They are very relaxing. I regret that I can't submerge both boobs and knees at the same time. But I have trouble staying in the tub for more than 10 minutes, I need something to do while I "relax".

Latin, anyone?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 28, 2018:

LOL. When I read the headline I was thinking I speak Igpay Atinlay very well.

No. Just no.

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 28, 2018:

Hurl. The old adage, "just because you can, doesn't mean you should" applies here. Fugly, IMHO.

Hope Hicks, Trump's longest-serving aide, resigns from the White House

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 28, 2018:

I saw something on that when I browsed FB on my phone at lunch time. Haven't had a chance to read it yet, but the headline gave me a boost!! The ancient Chinese curse, we live in interesting times.

The Exorcist -

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 28, 2018:

LOL!! Best laugh I've had all day!!!

"the fact that a believer is happier than a skeptic is no more to the point than the fact that a ...

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 28, 2018:

LOL!! Being a believer will make you happy, it means you've turned off your brains and all your ills will be taken care of magically and it isn't your fault. When you figure out it isn't happening then shit hits the fan. Starting to think again is an unsettling process.

Trump Jr. in India, John Oliver... [youtube.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 28, 2018:

The acorn doesn't fall from the tree.

If you had the chance to start over with someone, would you go back and meet them again or choose ...

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

If you remember the movie Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, they were poised to meet again. Our history is what helps us make better choices in the future. Yeah, there are some relationships I kinda wish I never had, but they taught me a good lesson. I don't do long distance because the long distance relationship I had ended so horribly. I engaged in some high risk behavior for a while and definitely learned some lessons from that. Can't change your history, just learn from it and move on.

I had a Tupperware party on line it was so fun. Has any body else done this new kind of party?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

I have two problems with Tupperware. First is that it is plastic. Second is it lasts forever. I accumulated loads of Tupperware in my life, had many parties and went to many parties. Then I found out what toxins are in plastic and I have gotten rid of most of my plastic by donating to Goodwill and other places, and now use primarily glass. I do have to say that doing it online would be a heck of a lot easier than cleaning house and making treats.

Is it better to settle for a good relationship or wait for the best, even if it might never happen?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

I have chosen not to settle. I may compromise on some things, but life is compromise. But I refuse to settle. Life is too short, but settling would make it way too long.

Has anyone read the, "Left Behind" books?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

Not only did I read them, but some more than once, and I owned all of them at one time. My kids all read them. I wish I had that money and time back now.

As some of you may recall from a post I wrote a few weeks back, I have been dealing with the grief ...

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

Be strong, and be happy you had her for so long, and remember the good times. You were so fortunate to have someone who loved you, and to have been able to tell her how much you loved her before she passed. If you stop by my house I'll give you a place to be safe to get it all out.

What creative outlets do you enjoy?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

I am a seamstress and quilter. The first quilt is on my lap now, my family room (basment) is a tad chilly. The second has some of the same fabrics as the first and is at work. The quilt on the bed was made about a year ago. I have tons of other stuff I've made. I crochet, knit, make lotions, lip balms, and soaps, to name a few.

Trump...Superhero!... [youtube.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

He is such a moron! He lives in a fantasy world. Such an ass.

Out of hardwork, dedication and consistency, one can achieve what he or she hopes to gain.

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

Of course the xian community does not have the edge on praise. Everyone wants to be appreciated. I think in building a strong community it is nearly imperative to have a supportive encouraging community. There is enough BS outside, we need a community that builds us up. How to say it? Thank you for posting. I like that, interesting. What ever positive comment that fits.

Can I ever be happy again ?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

Choose happy. What makes you happy, do that. Choose to look on the bright side. Nurture yourself. Count your advantages. If you make up your mind that you will be happy, then you will be happy. If you choose otherwise it will happen. You have to make the decision and then do it.

Peace of mind

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

I have had troubles with depression off and on since my early 20s. Hang in there. You're in good company and I've learned it doesn't last forever.

Does wisdom come with age?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

I think that at 60 I've made most of the mistakes (outside of work) that I'm going to make. And I've been around the block a few times, so I've gained some experience. How does one gain experience? By making mistakes. Lots of them.

I was informed today that I got the promotion that I have been trying to get for SIX MONTHS!!! I ...

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

Woot!! Way to go!! I hope you are still this happy in 6 months!

"I don't believe in any superstitious nonsense, but..."

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

I have a silent chant when I make phone calls: "please go to voice mail, please go to voice mail..." No, not a superstition nor a prayer. Maybe a mantra. But no, I can't think of any superstitions I hold. I pretty much have disproved the breaking a mirror superstition. Black cats are just cats, albeit really dark. Haven't seen a 4 leaf clover in ages, and rabbits feet aren't good for the rabbit why would anyone carry one.

Ás beautiful as WV is, how great to be a bit closer to nature, and as much as I love animals, deer...

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

My former husband was hit by a deer in semi rural Kansas so it is not limited to WV. There was a horrible accident in the early 2000s, family driving down a 6 lane highway, deer got hit by one car, went air born and went through the windshield of another car. Mom and dad died instantly, three traumatized kids in the back seat. Deer and highways are not a good mix anywhere. Just 3/4 mile from my house I saw a young deer on the side of the road.

Which generation was “greener”?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 27, 2018:

I am trying to be green, but you're right our grandparents generation was much greener. They had no choice but to be green for the most part.

Greatest failure?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 26, 2018:

I don't know about the greatest failure, but I have had a few. I have learned failure is NOT final.

How often do you swear?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 26, 2018:

I am on the phone at work for a great deal of the day, and I am also a grandmother. So I swear like a soldier when I'm in traffic, and the rest of the time I keep it pretty locked down.

This bothers me way more than it should:

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 26, 2018:

Yeah, Why?

Archie Bunker Gun Control [youtube.com] That's what talking in circles looks like.

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 26, 2018:

it tells me it is blocked in my country due to copyright.

Me: You know.

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 26, 2018:

I think this woman is using you as a prop. If she was interested you as a a friend only she would have been much more tactful when shooting down your date suggestion. Sorry, I think she is using you. I think she was just rude. I have very few male friends, and they're friends because they are good guys but not interested in me as anything but a friend, I'm not their type. But I don' lament my love life with them either. I'd go out to dinner with you in a heartbeat. Just saying. Life is too short to mess around.

The Wood Brothers - "Happiness Jones" - YouTube

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 26, 2018:

cool.

When travelling around, do you prefer what mode of transport

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 26, 2018:

Where I live there isn't much choice. If I don't drive I don't go. There isn't much in walking distance and public transportation does not come out this far. A car isn't a luxury or not having one an option, it is a necessity. Which is sad, I'd love to take a bus or train.

James Veitch Is A Terrible Roommate - CONAN on TBS - YouTube

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 26, 2018:

OMG, I've seen his stuff before. I'd so smother him! Although he is cute.

Food allergies!

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 25, 2018:

Yes I am a very complicated houseplant.

I recently had cancer and have made it through treatment and had a clean CT scan.

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 25, 2018:

First, congratulations on getting through. I hope you recover well. What to tell folks, that you are going to be grateful to the scientific and medical community for research and care.

Have you been successful in dating using this app/website?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 25, 2018:

I have not had a date from this website. However, I may have met my soulmates. There are many on this site, all genders. I'm loving it!

This man is a true follower of the Flying Spaghetti Monster.

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 25, 2018:

LOL!! R'amen!!

Shelfish, The Bathroom Song. - YouTube

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 25, 2018:

LOL!! I am way lower maintenance than that.

Do you value life more ever since becoming nonreligious?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 25, 2018:

I don't think I do, however I do value life more since I became a grandmother.

Name the one thing special about where you live

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 25, 2018:

Do you hate me? There is nothing about this area that anyone envies us for. Good things about Omaha and the area. Low cost of living. If you are a college football fan there are the Cornhuskers. If you like college baseball, the College World Series will be here shortly. There is a nationally rated zoo if you are into those. Hot summers and cold ass winters, but spring and fall are wonderful.

I have faith and believes in God but not in religion. Would that be possible?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 25, 2018:

What I am hearing is that you believe there is a supreme being but that supreme being does not fit into any of the religions of the world that you are aware of. What does your supreme being expect of you?

How do you find that "special someone"

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 25, 2018:

I don't know, I thought I found him once. The reality was he lied too often and misrepresented himself. Had we gotten together I'd have had a basket case on my hands. When things were good they were really good, but when they went to hell it was awful. So, I am being true to me. I am looking, but I don't have high hopes. I'm happy with my company (or so I keep telling myself). I do what makes me happy and if the right man comes along he will have to fit into my life. There are some things I would be happy to change, but some things are non negotiable. I will always have cats. I will not move far from the kids. I am what I am and that is a stubborn liberal tree hugging Grammy, and damn proud of it.

Are you your own best friend ? How do you treat yourself as a person ?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 25, 2018:

I take time to take care of me. Reading relaxes me, so I try to read before I go to sleep. Although my books are getting lots of competition from Agnostic.com. I listen to my gut, it is the first to tell me that something is wrong. I usually eat pretty healthy, and generally eat less meat and food as it comes from nature. I meditate from time to time. I try to advocate for me because no one else will.

Watch: Starling murmuration at Minsmere - YouTube

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 25, 2018:

I love this stuff!! Nature is so amazing!

Thoughts & Prayers Make-Up Tutorial - YouTube

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 25, 2018:

LOL!! She nails it!!

I have been binge watching "I Shouldnt Be ALive" The main thing I have learned is helicopters are ...

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 25, 2018:

I may have to add that to my watch list.